I’m that guy.

I’m the pleasant, intelligent, gregarious, middle-aged fellow you met at the party. I’m the guy sitting at your poker table. I’m the one telling awesome jokes at the weekly status meeting. I am every man over 45. I also embrace my complexities to keep my own rationalization hamster spinning in his little wheel.

I’m the patriarchy of men who actually understands social dynamics.

I have no kids, no television, no car. I rode my motorcycle too fast. I don’t ride it anymore because of the story contained in the link below.

I also have an extraordinarily rare form of cancer.

I use online dating as well as meeting women in public and have become the very definition of “dated briefly”.

My home is in South Florida where I live in a modest apartment two blocks away from the Atlantic ocean. I have learned Charisma and practice it and also teach it to other men.