@Icevanman

I feel in a weird shitty position because although I do judge her for sending nudes to a dude not even a week after we were done but she nvr hung out with him

Well, you were broken up, you fucked two other women, and she only sent nudes.

If I found out she did stuff with another guy I would be done with her.

She probably knows this, so probably won't tell you if she did. But maybe she didn't.

don’t doubt her loyalty at this moment and her ability to keep being a good girlfriend but it’s this one detail in the past that’s bothering me and I’m not sure if it’s worth dumping this girl or accept it for what it is.

Two main points here:

The low sex drive thing can't be tolerated if it continues. Partly because it's often untrue (ie the low sex drives applies to the guy she's dating), partly because it's just awful to be exclusive to. So hopefully that's fixed.

Second point: assuming that what she says is true and you believe her: this is absolutely nothing compared to what most women do, if she's otherwise great it's not worth losing a rare relatively-good woman over.

@Typo-MAGAshiv

All of the advice every woman gave me when I was a young AFC was garbage

Female advice to men is designed to help WOMEN. They can only see the female side, and they will literally advise men to do what benefits other women rather than try to help the man. This applies even to male relatives (eg sons).

The sum total of female dating advice to men is: "be yourself, do more things for women, expect less for yourself". This is so that women have an easier time selecting men out, not to make men more attractive. It is useless unactionable advice solely designed to help women and is followed up with "take her on nice dates" and "do nice things for her" and "be patient with her" (ie let her fuck Chad) and "don't expect too much" (ie don't expect sex while you're paying for her and she's fucking Chad) and the classic "lower your standards".

I have known exactly zero women to ever advise me or any other man to lose weight, gain muscle, be less nice, physically escalate on dates, date multiple women, dominate women especially in bed, and throatfuck them till they choke. Except the last part, that was solid advice from my mother. Not really.