@Negativecreepnstonedd I think you're on a good trajectory. Typical 4-year college educated women in their 20s and early 30s working white-collar office jobs almost always have unattainable "not gonna settle" delusion. Definitely helps psychologically to be working a blue collar job because if you want the option to find a good man and start a job, it's there. I suppose it's hard not to be a byproduct of one's environment.
@Osiris I totally get my post sounds 'tarded. But do you have kids yourself? Would like to hear your input if you do.
It's my nagging suspicion that there are only 3 types of guys with kids.
1) They lie to themselves everyday that this sort of slavery is great. 2) They quietly admit to themselves that having kids sucks. 3) They have fuck-you money so it doesn't matter if they're married, divorced, or about to be divorced, they're fine regardless.
TRP says Don't Get Married because you give up power and freedom to a woman. Isn't it the same thing, albeit slightly indirectly, if you have kids? Consider the ranks of a household with kids: Kids, mother, dog, cat, father.
Fulfilling experience? I'm sure it is, but so is a good sandwich. Having kids is not so great for men now because women make it so difficult.Read More