@jonason

I need some advice from you guys. I’m 18 years old, just started university and moved out from my parents. A week ago in the club I made several strong eye contacts with a girls and we danced a little bit together, she asked for my ig, but then left going to her friends. Later i saw her with plenty some other guy or several idk. I was super nervous when I was with her because I never had that tension with a girl that hot. Anyways the text game on ig has been pretty dry and I think meeting her in person would definitely be better. Looking back I know I made several mistakes but maybe I can turn this around. What are your tips for asking out on a date and what locations and occasions would you choose?

You'll need to figure out best locations based on the climate and the culture. Some guys do well approaching women in supermarkets and department stores. Some guys do well approaching women on the bus or subway during their commute.

The best tip I could really offer is that you consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.