3y ago TheRedPill
Day 23 of NoFap, day 1 of Monk Mode. What are some of the things I should know about Monk Mode and how can I increase my benefits?
3y ago TheRedPill
Is democracy a fundamentally feminine thing? The reason why I would like to bring this argument up, is that democracy has to take into consideration the perspectives of everyone who lives under a body (which is elected in of itself) whereas individualism empowers men more as they have to learn to survive themselves (mental point of origin). Therefore, from this argument, democracy should be limited. What are your opinions on this? Should democracy be limited or should it be increased further?
3y ago TheRedPill
I need to get my ass offline and stop caring about what random hoes on chatrooms think. I've got ONEitis over some chick in a chatroom because I pretended to kiss her and she kissed me back. It made me feel like a male feminist special snowflake. She only did it because I was an asshole. I was only an asshole because I was acting like myself. There are several other assholes in the group. She's probably going to actually pretend to have sex with one of them tonight (or more of them) and be more into it than when she kissed me. She said she felt we had a connection, she's probably telling Chad the same thing.
She may even meet up with one (or more) of them, the really alpha ones. I need to learn how to better control my ONEitis. I know that it comes from living in a single parent household (my dad only) and hearing his frustration towards not being able to find a woman. It also comes from pornography (chatrooms count). And finally, it comes from attending mostly female schools and taking liberal arts subjects, leading to a co-dependency on the system for support. I need to sever my ties to the weakness, it may even mean dropping out of school and leaving home to do manual labour. This may be my transition into manhood. NoFap and workouts mean jack shit, they won't make me a man unless I live a man's lifestyle. Anyways, I need more advice in how to become a man and to take responsibility for my ONEitis.
I want to be like an engineer that I know, he's minimum-wage, he's an athletic build, he's introverted (rarely speaks) yet he has lots of women and friends. The women even have affairs on their boyfriends with him, I've heard it myself! I want to be the Chad in real life that all these bitches go to, not just kiss and forget about. I want to never have to worry about ONEitis or women online again. I want to have abundance.
I'm serious about this. I'm not just some other retard on the block hoping to get laid. I want to be a background influencer, an introverted alpha who's not afraid of speaking their mind. I went really quiet in that group, which was considered to be sexy. I knew about the timing. I knew when to stop. I didn't just talk a bunch of shit and try to fake being an extrovert. I did at first, but I stopped myself after the first chick got pissed off. How do I keep up the good work without looking back?
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I have a bladder infection, so I'll be having a couple of days off school. How can I improve myself (from the comfort of my bed) whilst I'm off?
3y ago The Hub
@INNASKILLZ2K20 I actually do have Asperger's syndrome and social anxiety so yeah, not helping. Also, don't ever talk to me like that again. Okay buddy? Now going back to the actual topic, how would I be able to get out of my head? Better yet, how can I get out o my own head and get into other peoples' heads? That's basically how attraction works. It's basically what the PUAs teach ABHORRENTLY.
3y ago The Hub
*Knocked the second one off, I am very clumsy today, sorry
So she said 'no', which was obvious. She said it seductively. Well, where could I have gone from here? I could have just waited a few seconds for her to speak and let her ask me some questions. Then I could escalate further until we arrange to meet up and smash. It would have been an FWB as opposed to an LTR because of the direction of my flirting, but I'm not gonna get too hung up over it. It is what it is.
Interestingly enough, she used the lesbian excuse that a previous girl I flirted with used 'I'm a lesbian'. No she isn't, I've heard about the amount of boys she's slept with. I just agreed with her because I was flabbergasted by the rejection.
*Sorry for the grammar, I have no girls to get coffee with so I am in a permanent state of tiredness.
Read More3y ago The Hub
*knocked the first one off accidentally, so this is part two
So yeah, with the first one, I feel as though she was keeping me around as an orbiter because she closes off when I talk to her like I'm very awkward, yet still gives me signals. I think this only confirms my hypothesis. Her friends (other friends than the ones I flirted with) were doing the same thing, so I just cut them out of my life.
The second girl was interesting as well. I flirted with all of her friends who rejected me whilst I was waiting for her to get out of the toilet. I then said to her, because she told me her phone was broken, that it's because she 'doesn't have my number in it'. She kinda froze up and I felt awkward.
She then talked to her beta orbiter friend about food and I asked her if she knew any restraunts we could go to in her area. She said 'no'. I asked her to come to my area for a dinner date, she said she'll 'think about it' (no). I felt as though I was expressing myself more with her than the other girls. She was someone who I had a massive crush on in my blue pill days, so I'm glad that I cleared the air a little bit with her.
Another one of the 11 girls, 2 of them actually, flirted back with me. They tested me a lot because of my low status. They asked if I was a virgin. This kind of thinking is unhealthily, but I think I should have said no (even though I am a virgin, I've only ever had one relationship that was an FWB with a 2 from a different country). If I said that I've lost count of all the women I've slept with, she would be more likely to put out because it would show capability and what she was looking for, social mastery.
Instead, I asked her if she was a virgin,
Read More3y ago The Hub
Field report: I've just gotten rejected 11 times, 2 were maybes, but I only take absolutes from women.
The two that agreed didn't seem all that interested. The first one said that she had a friend who's dad owns some sort of theme park thing. She also looked quite uncomfortable when she saw me talking to myself randomly(I did that because I was focusing on something).
With the first one, I had this urge to tease her but I didn't because I felt as though she was much more high status than me. I fell for the old blue pill lie 'she's out of my league'. That probably would have boosted my attraction up a little, but let's continue.
I asked this chick a few questions, she asked me some (sign of attraction) but i didn't talk about myself. I didn't feel comfortable doing that, I thought that I should have asked her questions about herself then teased her over it. Because I couldn't bring myself to do that either, there were a lot of long and awkward silences.
I arranged a weird date, I said that I wanted to walk her dog or something with her. That was the literal excuse she used to get rid of me, 'I have a dog who doesn't like visitors' was her excuse to get me to not come to visit her. I tried to turn it into an arrangement for a date. I also tried to arrange a date when she said that she likes running, I said that I wanted to go running with her. It seemed pretty desparate, not gonna lie.
She wandered of with the intention of not coming back, saying that she had other things to get on with. She actually said that she'd come back, but I caught her out. She was with her friends in another room. I went into that roomcoincidentally, because I thought that I gave her more than enough attention. I then flirted with some of her friends, all of them were 4s who rejected me. One of them flirted back, but I didn't know how to respond so it was left at a cliffhanger. She might flirt with me again, she might not. We'll see.
Intuitively with the first one,
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