@Mars At first I was interested in a LTR. Right now, I do not want anything and told her she could go fuck off with her friends. This was my first relationship in a very long time and it just feels shitty being switched out right in front of my eyes. That being said, I should have seen it coming since that is how our relationship started.
How do you deal with a hurt ego caused by a woman? Right now I'm trying to stay busy and hopefully this shit goes away real quick and I can continue leveling up.
Thank you for your advice, next time I detect satellites, I will end it right there and then, instead of wasting a year of my life with this shit.
@TiberiusBravo87 Thank you for your words. Just recently broke up with my gf of about a year because of this. Nothing is confirmed but I just had the feeling some shit was going to happen at some point. She has many satellites floating around. Right now it hurts like a mother fucker, but I'm trying to keep it together and work on myself...
@whitehavik Yes. Each time I would work around the subject slowly until either they drink some alcohol or otherwise let their guard down. Each time they admitted to fucking at least one of those "guy friends". Every. Time.
"It was just a drunk thing at a camping trip only one time" "Lance is harmless, just pity fucked him when he lost his dog just once" "I actually dated him for a few years then it did not work blah blah blah" "I blew him because I was drunk at the time" "He was such a good friend and one night I gave it a try"
It's an endless parade of bullshit. These are real lines that were told to me upon inquiry. "Guy friends" are a huge red flag. Exes are one thing, but currently having male friends is a hard pass. I tried to prove this wrong but it turns out to be solid advice to avoid women who hang around men.Read More
I'm hoping to get some advice.
Background: I'm 26 years old and a dropout. 2 years ago I dropped out of a masters program. I've always had highs and lows that have affected my personal life, but it has become unmanageable. Maybe it never was... Today I got fired, rightfully so, from the first formal job I've had since dropping out. I wasn't feeling it, and just couldn't get it together long enough. It has been a day mixed with emotions, but I feel like I'm managing well. I'm trying to interpret it as an opportunity to take a chance and bet on myself. I know what I want to do long term, but until now, I have taken a few, mostly meaningless, steps towards accomplishing my goals. That has got to change.... I've known this for a while and have tried many times to lift off. It seems like I just can't do it. How do you stop doubting yourself and just get shit done? How do you let go of everything and just focus?
TLDR: Having a shitty time right now, and need advice on letting go and going all in. Getting shit done. Become superman.
Thank you in advanced.Read More