@Theolympicnomad I threw away an 8 year relationship, quit my corporate job, moved to L.A. at 30 to become a minimum wage ice cream scooper. Cope
@Theolympicnomad I threw away an 8 year relationship, quit my corporate job, moved to L.A. at 30 to become a minimum wage ice cream scooper. Cope
LTR gaslights me to try to get my attention back, how to deal?
Like the title says. Whenever this girl pisses me TF off I just withdraw attention and do something else. I don't act butthurt I just leave and become scarce. Go to the gym, do daygame/night game, hangout with friends, even just put in my headphones and play videogames.
Now what she tries to do is ask for my phone and say the reason that I'm acting indifferent towards her is that I'm cheating and she starts accusing me trying to get me to give her attention by putting me on the defensive. The only reason I don't want to give her my phone is because I have private interest (anime NOT HENTAI, music interests, things from my childhood, etc) that I dont really like to share with anybody not even my close friends.
What should I do on that scenario? Just give her my phone anyways? I feel like that's too supplicating.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
As for the LTR, the only other thing I could recommend is that you...
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@AndrewTatesPancreas That's our curse man, we can fuck these bitches and give em kids but when it comes to staying with them and raising a family it's a no go
Hell with my fuck buddies I only fucked maybe 2 - 3 times a month and still had them cooking for me, ditching their friends to see me. If she isn't even doing at least those then why date her?
I don't believe such a relationship can transition from this to a conventional LTR, much less a wife. This is the type of woman most likely to get bored and sabotage the relationship when things get "too good/smooth/safe/secure."
I've experienced firsthand how a low self esteem woman reacts to getting offered an LTR package of security, love, and respect. Because she has internalized self-loathing and worthlessness, she will react with disgust toward a man who tries to value her above what she considers her station.
@AndrewTatesPancreas Yeah I can see that, I think(?) it depends on the specific dynamic between you and the girl. In my experience they try to push for a relationship between 4-6 months but I stall them for about a year then drop em etc.
@AndrewTatesPancreas I hope he does bro, I feel like being red pulled is more so for RELATIONSHIP game but you still need pickup to learn how to seduce women and get them to be baseline submissive to you before the relationship even starts. That's why I tell guys you need to be fuck buddies with her for at least 1 years and never see her more than twice a week at most. Hell with my fuck buddies I only fucked maybe 2 - 3 times a month and still had them cooking for me, ditching their friends to see me. If she isn't even doing at least those then why date her?
This is ridiculous. I wanna say I feel bad for him for even asking this question to reddits beta males and feminist. Of course in the comments they take his "girlfriends" side. Smh