Can you link them to me? I don't know what you are talking about
Can you link them to me? I don't know what you are talking about
I realized years ago, more often then not, if I'm inviting someone to partake in one of my passions, I'm usually sacrificing my enjoyment for company because most people don't want to go at it, with the same level of intensity I possess.
Meeting people in the middle is oftentimes meeting someone halfway beneath you.
When you find that to be the case don't bother.
@Vermillion-Rx it already looks pretty blurry to me
I doubt anyone who knows her IRL will be able to recognize her, and that's the standard
@Vermillion-Rx @First-light asked me to post some of the crazy exchanges I have on X with women who are accustomed to being pandered to in college and on dates and when men on X don't toe the line. They usually respond-and-block or "yell and run away" at some point which this one did. I had said all I needed to say so no skin off my nose. I never have seen them just block WITHOUT responding first.
I have edited out her handle to avoid charges of brigading against this forum. It's wonderful how fragile their egos are when just a little bit of pushback is given.
Avoid people who don't want to hear the truth
They will always only ever surround themselves with enablers and people willing to lie to them, or worse, other people who don't even know they are just as wrong feeding off of each other indefinitely
They will come to you and when you tell them the truth they will hate you.
You will be in a constant catch 22 with these people because they will resent the truth if you give it and think you don't care about them if you learn to withhold your opinion and decline to help them
Their revulsion at the truth will keep them in the depths of inauthenticity and they will drag you into their wrath and delusions for bursting any pillars of their fantasies
Unfortunately you just have to let them do what they're gonna do. You can't save them all
Everyone has heard of Captain save a hoe but honestly there are way too many captain save a bro situations that you shouldn't be getting yourself into
I would hate to see a friend off himself over a bitch but they will hate you for trying to save them.
I'm about close to losing this friend trying to help him. He asked me to keep certain women his ex was jealous of away from him and everything
Just to be mad at me for telling him the truth. In general avoid your compromised down bad friends. They will eventually disappoint you
Another valuable reason to limit red knighting your down bad blue pill friends, apart from them hating you for it, instead of being able to soberly see that you are actually the best help they have ever received, it's rather quite simple:
If it came down to it, they would absolutely throw you under the bus for mediocre pussy abusing them.
I have no doubt in my mind, after everything this friend experienced, dumped and all, that he would sacrifice me on the alter for mediocre snatch without a second thought
Don't red Knight your down bad friends. They are compromised as is. They would let a disrespectful bitch run your fate through their friendship than listen to any actual lifesaving advice
Update 2:
We agreed to never exchange advice again
You cannot help down bad men. He got upset I spoke negatively of his ex, who he is determined to wait for as she samples cacks while he stays celibate for a relationship that is never coming back
You CANNOT help these men. That is the only reason I'm sharing this story. If you guys think you can red Knight your terminally down bad friends you are wrong
I knew this wouldn't work. I felt obligated to help him because he's been borderline suicidal about it. But beyond that I knew the end result would be agreeing not to talk about it
They will only hate you for being honest and they will seek bad advice because it feels good