@Lone_Ranger Thanks G, I think you said something similar on another post. Starting to understand it's about the pressure and anxiety and this sounds like it will reduce it. Worst comes to worst I can just eat her out and make her cum.
@exos In the moment DON'T DWELL ON IT! My go to move was to either make out longer or eat her for a few minutes. Soon I had a hard boner to plunge into her eager sopping pussy.
Getting her to suck it hard was always dicey. I'm not a big fan of head anyway. It puts your penis even more into the performance spotlight. Also many women will take your flaccid state personally or find it a flaw in you.
@coolsocks00 Thanks for the advice. Any practices you could recommend? ie. meditation
Gents, what is your protocol for raging erections? This weekend I had a girl over Friday night, she made me cum from head, then fucked her in the morning but my little fella was at 3/4 mast the whole time. Same thing Sunday morning, my stripper plate called me round after her shift and usually in the morning I'm at full mast, but 3/4 mast again. Then Sunday night I had another plate round but couldn't keep it up when I was inside her.
I miss being 21 and having a gigantic boner that just won't go down.
@Victor Yeah I think I'm over the spinning plates with no connection.
Do your girls know you're seeing other girls too? Cause I feel like emotional connections are hard to form if you're seeing more than one person. I can do it, but I don't know if they can do it with me.
Anyone feel like they probably won’t be able to pair bond? My N count is over 100 at this point and I’m starting to question if I could ever commit to a woman now, even if it’s in an OLTR.
@patan2000 dude. This is literally what people do. I went to a bar with my homie the other night to catch up and talk shit. Girls do this aaaaalllll the time. And if u asked them they’d say “we’re catching up over a drink”. If you’re thinking this affects your ability to hit on them you’re looking at it the wrong way. They’re usually open to it… if you’re attractive
The goal is to break the pattern of giving women unconditional positive regard, and generating some emotional peaks that can get parlayed into attraction.
Application takes calibration and offense. "Asshole game" pulls a lot of women from certain subsets of them, but it's a subtle difference between effective asshole game and just coming off like an asshole.
It''s useful for screening in women who are DTF short term. It will also screen out women raised with good Fathers and non-psycho potential relationship material. Apply with care.