@exos

I just approached a 13 year old, feel so sick and it’s weighing on my soul.

Walking along the street in a big city in a foreign country, it’s 8 pm and summer here, I see two girls about 20m ahead, both looking dressed up to go out, lots of makeup, hoop earrings.

I didn’t get a good look at both of them but stopped them and said “excuse me, do you speak English” in their language.

The one on the right says “why”, I look at her friend and said in english “I just thought you were cute”.

The one on the right said “she’s fucking 13!” And I just said “oh wtf” and walk away, shocked.

She starts yelling at me in their language and I just walk off, at a loss for words and couldn’t think.

I could’ve sworn her friend was older, like 18-20, but as I was saying “I thought you were cute” and looking at her I started to see she was younger, probably underage. Too late.

This happened 30 mins ago. I feel disgusted in myself and really bad for the girl. I should’ve said sorry but I was just so shocked.

Has anyone ever done this before? Makes me question my whole cold approach method and if I should be doing it during the day in public.

When I was in NY for college, I found myself lost on a campus trying to navigate to a room in some building. I stopped at some directory with a faded map which didn't bode well in my mind, then noticed two black females heading my way who were conversing between themselves. I excused myself and asked if they knew which way the building I was looking for was. However, before I could finish asking my question one of them cut me off in mid sentence saying, "I got a man," which I would later learn was the new trend at the time, to which I promptly responded, "that's nice, but I'm lost and trying to find this building, could you at least point me in the general direction?" This prompted her friend to laugh while pointing me to a building, which I thanked her and went on my way.

The point of the story? That you've got to have your wits about you when you're out and about, even when looking to chat up females. You committed no crime telling a 13 year old girl that they were cute. Had they not been indoctrinated in feminism, they'd have accepted the compliment and told you her age while otherwise harmlessly laughing at your ignorance. Instead, they took offense to someone looking as you do at your age thinking to talk to them without their permission. If I'd been in your situation, upon being told that the girl was 13, I'd have simply laughed and told her friend, "Then she's wearing entirely too much make-up, I thought she was nearly thirty." Before leaving those fledgling Hens pecking and scratching at my shadow as I resume going about my day.

I just approached a 13 year old, feel so sick and it’s weighing on my soul.

Walking along the street in a big city in a foreign country, it’s 8 pm and summer here, I see two girls about 20m ahead, both looking dressed up to go out, lots of makeup, hoop earrings.

I didn’t get a good look at both of them but stopped them and said “excuse me, do you speak English” in their language.

The one on the right says “why”, I look at her friend and said in english “I just thought you were cute”.

The one on the right said “she’s fucking 13!” And I just said “oh wtf” and walk away, shocked.

She starts yelling at me in their language and I just walk off, at a loss for words and couldn’t think.

I could’ve sworn her friend was older, like 18-20, but as I was saying “I thought you were cute” and looking at her I started to see she was younger, probably underage. Too late.

This happened 30 mins ago. I feel disgusted in myself and really bad for the girl. I should’ve said sorry but I was just so shocked.

Has anyone ever done this before? Makes me question my whole cold approach method and if I should be doing it during the day in public.