@Lionsmane8

you'll find out that societies across the globe (even the most outwardly patriarchal ones) are very gynocentric and always have been

i already know and experienced this - I was in Pakistan, where even though everything is male dominated but men are quick to simp and if a girl shouts for help, everyone is ready to help her like crazy

I am in Europe now, but i know that the obsession with gynocentric principles remains the same - fuck them tbh !

i know that good men cannot escape the gynocentric bullshit society - i just want to enjoy life while i am here

i was just upset that its too much of an ask to say a friendly hi to a girl and strike up a conversation with her - how screwed up has the society become

Try to disassociate money from women.

i am already aware that i cannot get women with money - someone else will always be richer. so fuck that, i will never use money as a factor when approaching women. I will always appear as someone with normal finances

Find greater reasons to make money (freedom is the most evident one).

this is something is struggle with but its because of other worries in my life

@Lone_Ranger

Please don't be insulted, but it sounds like you have a lot to learn.

not at all, i know i have to learn a lot. i appreciate that you are taking the time to help me !

night school / art history class / pottery / still life drawing class

i would argue they are kind of social circle, because you see the girl again & again.

and this is my anxious mind speaking - but how would i open someone in a closed space like a cafe ? it feels so awkward !

desensitisation program

please suggest something i can use as an example or starting point to desensitize myself

I would recommend that you practice being friendly, open and conversational with people of your own sex BEFORE you go around approach women.

i have already done this, in a University environment where i made a lot of people & even complimented women - sadly now that i am living outside a university, all of this is harder to achieve which is partly why i am depressed

I want to provide a bit more perspective, i am sorry if i sounded rushed - i am extremely upset about this limitation of day game

How come the bad boys and chads get to fuck women, get them pregnant and then escape without any alimony ?

in contrast, me and i am sure many other men here, have worked their asses off to reach an important point in their career

we are working hard to make ourselves self-sustainable and wealthy, and we can't get to pick the women we like just because of some gynocentric society and its retarded rules ?

what's the advantage of following the rules and laws of civilisation when society itself is so biased in favour of one gender ?

why should we work so hard for a civilization which is going to use our tax money to fund women who made poor choices and are now looking for a way out by trapping hard working men ?

and while we on the other hand will be termed in the same bracket as a terrorist, if we say hi to a girl on the street ?

This might sound like the red pill rage, but i had my rage period about two years ago.

So this is more like an inquisitive and retrospective rant.

Why should good men like us, who work to earn legit money and don't harm anyone, have to suffer with society's restrictions in approaching women ?

this doesn't make sense at all and sounds extremely unfair to men who have never harmed a woman in their lives

its like we are getting prosecuted for a crime we never committed in the first place, but the society is merely after us because it suspects that we will commit the crime - its like prejudice - but only for men

@Lone_Ranger don't want to sound negative, but this is very depressing .. wtf

I am not in UK, but that sucks for all the good men there - even if they have no intentions of doing anything wrong to the girl, the police will hunt them down just because they talked to a girl

wtf is wrong with the law / politicians - i would never hurt or harrass a girl, the moment she says she has a boyfriend i will just move on, i am very ok with rejection

but if girls are calling the police because i approached them on the street .. i don't see a way forward

its going to be really hard for me to find a girl then. I don't want to pollute my social circle, so i thought i could day game when i had confidence and desire to do so ..

it was literally the only option i had - not to be a negative nancy, but i am not attractive or very tall ( i'm 5'6 - 5'7) in the conventional terms but i can be quite charming when i am feeling good and in the zone. That is how i was hoping to score a few numbers and take things from there onwards ..

but if police is going to be against men at all times and girls will be such a pussy to call police officers for a man who is simply talking to them - that sucks for dating etc

guess i'll stay by myself then