@Artila

Plate doing nuclear comfort tests/something else?

Been spinning this plate for about a year and there's oneitis involved now, I was thinking about promoting to ltr. This bitch is very scarce when it comes to shittests but comfort tests ALL the time. She's painfully insecure, and it doesn't help that my lifestyle naturally fuels dread I guess.

A week ago we went out and had a great time all around, she slept over at my house but we went to hers in the morning so she could make us breakfast. We were planning on watching a movie afterwards, and when I advised doing it back at my house she sarcastically asked if it's beause her house is dirty/lame compared to mine. I scoffed it off, we went out so she could walk her dog and when we were back in front of her house I said "leave the dog, take the keys and come back to my house, I'll be there". She straight up said "No." Okay, see you soon then, and I started walking back home. She stopped me for a second visibly flabbergasted and asked "Seriously??", to which I replied something like "Yeah, I don't understand, do you want me to wait for you or?", and she just went back inside saying "nevermind then".

I sent her a random message a few hours later, not knowing that it was seemingly a big deal for her - she ghosted me, it's been 8 days without a reply now. Do I call to see what's up? I have a feeling if I don't this might be the end, and it's a really retarded thing to end the relationship over. On the other hand, what if it's just a shittest? Do I wait?

To answer my own question, calling her this one time might not be too beta of me but definitely hardnext it it happens again

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