There is a particular flavor to the women of my culture, South Koreans. That flavor is psychological irregular warfare in the form of a Hello Kitty debit card. I am not surprised.
@destraht That's fascinating and inspiring, bro. "weird ass small ponds and just work it hard" That's really the key. Find something you enjoy no matter how obscure or even how popular it is. I'm sometimes embarrassed about admitting what I'm doing in my free time but it's not as hackneyed as I believe. Then get good at it. I repeat, git gud. It's just a matter of time and effort, both of which is under your immediate control, as opposed to other smv factors you can't change like height, genetics, birthplace, not having an extra comma in your bank account.