Lied to my LTR about my age, not sure what to do now
Hey first please dont judge me, i legit need some advices
i basically look almost 10 years younger than my real age.
I'm 33 yo and told my GF i'm 25 yo, It's been a year now since we are dating, and she is 21 yo.
I used to go out a lot at night and tell every girls i met that i'm 24/25, all of them believed me, so i ended up having this bad habit to lie about my age in club/bars/party settings
I even had girls telling i look youger than my fake age
The night i met her was at a bar, she was super interested, i lied about my age this night as always :/, anyway she text me the day after so we can hangout again, i accept ... and here we are now, 1 year after, still dating, met her parents & familly multiple times, everyones like me
We never had a single argument, she is a nice girl with no red flags, and everything is going fine
I'm not sure what to do now, either tell her everything and see where it goes, and just dump her depsite she is a nice girl ? I feel stuck atm
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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