How do you deal with a womans intrusive gay best friend? I want this guy gone.
My LTR has a gay best friend who’s a flamboyant homosexual. Apparently just about every guy she’s ever dated has had an issue with him. They work together, usually in the city which is a decent drive from where she lives. She told me recently that she spends the night at his house out of convenience and also SHARES THE SAME BED WITH HIM.
I kept the conversation really simple and told her that I wasn’t cool with it and she should’ve told me that before we got into a LTR and introduced me to her whole family. Obviously she didn’t understand why it was an issue. I made it clear that it would have to stop and if it happens again I can’t stay committed to her. She actually asked me if I would get her a hotel whenever she needs to spend the night, to which I said absolutely not and that she needs to just go home and sleep in her own bed.
If this happens again, I’m dumping her. Ultimately though it’s really not what I want. In a perfect world she would just e too being friends with this guy. Anyone else been through this scenario?
That reads like a particularly disturbing s#!t test. You're clearly a kinder man than I would've been in that situation.
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How do you deal with a womans intrusive gay best friend? I want this guy gone.
My LTR has a gay best friend who’s a flamboyant homosexual. Apparently just about every guy she’s ever dated has had an issue with him. They work together, usually in the city which is a decent drive from where she lives. She told me recently that she spends the night at his house out of convenience and also SHARES THE SAME BED WITH HIM.
I kept the conversation really simple and told her that I wasn’t cool with it and she should’ve told me that before we got into a LTR and introduced me to her whole family. Obviously she didn’t understand why it was an issue. I made it clear that it would have to stop and if it happens again I can’t stay committed to her. She actually asked me if I would get her a hotel whenever she needs to spend the night, to which I said absolutely not and that she needs to just go home and sleep in her own bed.
If this happens again, I’m dumping her. Ultimately though it’s really not what I want. In a perfect world she would just e too being friends with this guy. Anyone else been through this scenario?
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