@Thedoctor I enjoy courtship, limerence, and repeat encounters even those destined no higher than plate or FWB.
WHEN you have plates in the kitty, and are CONSISTENTLY landing those you pick to invest time, you are doing it right and can afford to indulge in talks and longer courtships. But you'll never FRIEND your way into a womans bed!
@Thedoctor Over time I've refined my dating funnel such that I prequalify heavily and aim for a small number of highly matched prospects. Virtually all that reach the meet in person level end up sleeping with me, sometimes after 2-3 more dates. These are always open to affection, touch, measured escalation. If cold, she's not interested
@Thedoctor Sometimes she's DTF but has low N count because she's not quick to hop into bed... give her 20 minutes to talk and get it out of the way; you maintain frame and concede nothing unwillingly, then she's past it and becomes a good regular sex partner. Go into the talk open minded, determine if shy-but-attracted or seeking betabux