Help me understand this? A girl who showed a lot of indicators of interest at work is now flaking later?
Hi. First off, I am an Indian living in India. I am 6'0, well built and good-looking. There was a meet-up in office recently for a few days and this pretty chick kept showing a lot of interest in me then. She kept looking in my direction often, started up a conversation with me voluntarily and came with me when I split off from the rest of the group. It went so well that we even exchanged numbers.
Now, after exchanging numbers, when I started talking to her, she let it it slip that she has a boyfriend. Since then she is not very responsive to text messages or calls. Why do you think she's doing this? Is the initial attraction phase after the meetup in office over?
All you need to understand about this situation is that when a female is interested in you, she will do what she knows will inspire you to continue to pursue her. When she is not interested in you, she will do the things that dissuade you from pursuing her. If her actions are inconsistent with her words, dismiss what she said and immediately default to applying the above analysis to her actions and follow the most obvious conclusion that she's not that into you. Further, do not ever second guess your gut and do your best to avoid employers who also hire females.
In future, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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Help me understand this? A girl who showed a lot of indicators of interest at work is now flaking later?
Hi. First off, I am an Indian living in India. I am 6'0, well built and good-looking. There was a meet-up in office recently for a few days and this pretty chick kept showing a lot of interest in me then. She kept looking in my direction often, started up a conversation with me voluntarily and came with me when I split off from the rest of the group. It went so well that we even exchanged numbers.
Now, after exchanging numbers, when I started talking to her, she let it it slip that she has a boyfriend. Since then she is not very responsive to text messages or calls. Why do you think she's doing this? Is the initial attraction phase after the meetup in office over?