So I brought in a girl (first time, never ever brought any girl in before) I just met 5 hours ago just to "hang out", and I couldnt figure out if I be called a rapist if I force kissed her or something. I told her to spend the night with me bluntly while I was also in bed. I dont know whether it was right to say or I should have just pulled her close and kissed her or something. Suddenly all that shit of "rapist" started coming to my mind and I froze and there was silence, like long silence, I held her hand etc. When she said no, she also didnt moved or left immediately. She hugged me before leaving. I dont fucking know on how many levels that shit went wrong. I was also so tired that my brain wasn't working.

Talk some sense into me please.