@financehardo420
is it normal to eventually marry a 21-25yo when you’re in your mid-late 30s?
I guess kinda building on my last question.
You see all those dumbass 30+ yo broads talkin about “where are all the good men” but then what about the fellas that don’t get married in early 20s?
I’ve been acutely aware of like divorce n shit from a young age (even though my parents thankfully never did) and I made my peace w the idea of not getting hitched till later in life. Mainly due to the way laws are written; as said often in redpill it’s a losing deal for the guys.
But is this going to be weird? If im like 36/37/38 years old or even 40-42 years old by the time I’m ready to settle down and let’s say I’ve been in an LTR w some chick in her early 20s… won’t her parents object or something? Is this the new norm in life?
Sorry I’m just hamstering right now
We try to discuss the interconnecting topic of relationships beyond Lover/Girlfriend/LTR such as marriage, family, and divorce quite often, but a very vocal segment of the users prefer discussing casual fornication, because they've otherwise had some seriously bad experiences with relationships and were deeply affected, if not traumatized, by them.
Contrary to what you may believe, it's actually the norm for men to court and marry women either years, or decades, younger than themselves. Particularly, if one of the mans goals is to have healthy offspring. That said, if one of your goals is to be married at some point in your life, especially if you also want to be a father to children, then it's best that when you're fully prepared for that stage of things, you prioritize finding those women who're both physically and mentally healthy, as well as sincere in their desire to be the wives of men and mothers to their future husbands children.
Yea, divorce is a big problem and can be devastating for everyone in the household, but according to the stats in circulation the bulk of the people who've done it are boomers and the pseudo-boomer segment of Gen X. The occurrence of divorce, while declining, doesn't diminish the need for men to understand what contributes to marriage failure and divorce. Most people have been dramatically affected by their parents divorces despite their brave face. This trauma is what drives much of the discussion on the topic and I think such discussions are good to have.
However, when you're ready for that phase of your life though, you're going to want to scrutinize the actions of the women you date and disqualify those who do things which you find put them in conflict with what you've come to understand is necessary for being good wives and mothers. So, if you want to court and marry some young fertile twenty something, when you're thirty, forty, or fifty something yourself, take some solace in knowing that many of us here have got your back.
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