How to get out of friendzone?
So I think I have managed to somehow screw myself into the famous friendzone.
I believe I have been blindsided by compliments from her and by the fact that she was the one to ask me out and wants to facetime. Now I dont know where I screwed up, but the chick doesn’t seem to have the desire to actually have sex rather just to chat.
Maybe bad frame or escalation?
Once you've been placed in the friend zone, there's no coming back. The only time you should talk with a gal who's not a relative or your wife is when you're on a date. The best that you can do is learn from this and move on with your life accordingly. If you've got idle time to chat with a gal who's bored, then you should look at taking up a hobby. Something that occupies your mind and focuses it onto other things to your satisfaction.
Beyond that, I again, suggest that you consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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