22 years old Ex hockey player and coastal jaeger Accounting and finance student Been hitting the gym for 3 years (bw ~80kg)
Hi Trp,
I have lately been struggeling with ED with a particular chick. I have never ever before in my life had ED even while drunk so it’s very weird.
At first I thought it was because I had chlamydia, but I am clean now and still got ED with her.
Have you had similar experiences? I am wondering if it could be some side-effect of having chlamydia.
Its also weird as I didn’t have this problem the first time I saw her. Maybe it could have something to do with finding out her whore backgroung?
@redpillschool Facts. Wish I would have noticed it sooner. But I got the feeling she is gonna hit me up again with the same bs question. What to respond? Maybe something like ”I am not interested anymore” ?
@redpillschool I ignored her for the whole day today. She asked me tonight why I have been ignoring. I just said I’ve been busy. Probably sees through the bullshit but yeah
How to get out of friendzone?
So I think I have managed to somehow screw myself into the famous friendzone.
I believe I have been blindsided by compliments from her and by the fact that she was the one to ask me out and wants to facetime. Now I dont know where I screwed up, but the chick doesn’t seem to have the desire to actually have sex rather just to chat.
Maybe bad frame or escalation?
Once you've been placed in the friend zone, there's no coming back. The only time you should talk with a gal who's not a relative or your wife is when you're on a date. The best that you can do is learn from this and move on with your life accordingly. If you've got idle time to chat with a gal who's bored, then you should look at taking up a hobby. Something that occupies your mind and focuses it onto other things to your satisfaction.
Beyond that, I again, suggest that you consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
Read MoreHow to get out of friendzone?
So I think I have managed to somehow screw myself into the famous friendzone.
I believe I have been blindsided by compliments from her and by the fact that she was the one to ask me out and wants to facetime. Now I dont know where I screwed up, but the chick doesn’t seem to have the desire to actually have sex rather just to chat.
Maybe bad frame or escalation?
Post date game
Should I text first after first date (context below)
Hi everyone,
So I know I am probably overthinking on this too much, but I was on a date yesterday with a girl. Went really well and she seemed to be quite into me (proposed new dates). Now its been a around a day and I am wondering if I should just text her or wait for her to text me.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
Read More@RedRedRed Yeah lol thats what happens when an actually shawty shows interest in you in a while :D