My youngest Son was tangled up with a highly suspected BPD 25ish Female.
I did not ask about the sex, but I do know from his best friend that she was more than willing/able to provide it to other guys for whatever reason her twisted little mind came up with at any given moment.
It took far too long for him to wake up to what she was versus the cost of being with her.
It was difficult to see as a Parent.
I think I am safe after 40 years, maybe...
Although, looking back at it all, I did OK and who only knows where I would have ended up.
Some days, I am happy with how it all turned out and others I contemplate how much better it could have been if I had known more about TRP.
Sorry I missed the first post regarding this.
I am glad to hear it went well and seems to be a success.
Now, the hard part of recovering begins. It will take a lot of restraint to NOT get up and start doing the things that need to be done.
Stay down as much as possible, enjoy it while you can.
@woodsmoke that would be the hope, faint as it might be...
The grocery store.
If I was ever single again, and felt like dating, I would look there.
If you have enough skill to either ask some good food related questions or give advice on preparing dishes, you won't go hungry as she might feed you or you feed her.
Update to last post
My Wife saw the ENT yesterday, and he said all is good, no Cancer, come back in another year.
He explained, the Dentist (who suggested the follow-up) was probably not familiar with seeing the end results of the reconstructive surgery done for her Tonsil Cancer.
I guess now she can inform the Dentist, and hope it will get passed along to Colleagues.
There would be plant at the back fluffing up the bids for the middleman.
Mine has been gone 17 years.
He wasn't close, I chalk it up to his being tossed out of his home when he was 13 years old, which would have been 1941ish.
I don't know much about his story during those years, I do know he was self-reliant and everything I learned from him was more through osmosis than being given hands-on instruction.
He was selfless and spent his days helping others.
I'm grateful for having him as a Father and I still miss him.