hi guys, i have a question to ask and i need help with a complicated situation.

i’m currently in an LTR with a girl who’s honestly a 7/10 with slight issues with her temper sometimes. but she’s overall a very supportive girlfriend who’s been through my lowest points in life.

right now, it’s been almost 4-5 years already, and i know i can trust this girl wholeheartedly. however, right now i’ve recently met a girl who’s a solid 9.5/10 who’s shown a lot of interest in me as well.

to be honest, i’m just confused on what i should do moving forward. i value my LTR but the attraction is fading and my current GF is not doing her best in keeping herself in shape. i also have a busy lifestyle so i might not be able to provide the ideal marriage life that my LTR is hoping for anymore.

do i have an option to “have my cake and eat it too”? or is it better to stick to the LTR (which i don’t hate)? or is it better to end things? i have a tough time making a decision on my own side. mainly because my current GF has shown extreme loyalty in multiple occurrences during my lowest points throughout our LTR.

@jprdl Soviet feminism is a different flavor than western feminism and has certain issues but it's based upon the notion not of feminine empowerment or "patriarchal oppression" but rather the notion of women being expected to contribute to society via work BUT also still be at least as feminine as any western woman and have a family. Western feminist women are hedonists, victim princesses, and ball busting boss babes who view everything around them as objects to suit their goals.

Hmmm, consider the latest Carol I posted on WAATGM whose an aging "awesome" single mother who says she doesn't need men. She claims women all help each other and all that but note: Does she talk about how she helped her own mother, grandmother, grandfather? Does she talk about whether she volunteered at the local church?

Soviet Woman can be as ball busting as Western Boss Babes, if not worse at times particularly because Soviet Women are even MORE intelligent and focused on objectives. They can reduce a BP American man to blubber in minutes. They're not perfect and can be materialistic bitches and boss babes as well. Watch the films: "Adam's Rib" and "Moscow does not believe in tears".

Note that this was a unique period of Soviet history from say 1940's through the 1980's and just as much as women from our 1950's are different than today, Soviet woman is on the decline. The USA/AU/UK have a toxic version of white guilt feminism going on where I compare materialistic women in mainland Europe to American women as the difference between getting a burger with a few rat hairs in to one where the entire burger is a rat.