@lurkerhasarisen I wasn't proposing "hypergamous widow tears" seriously. Well, perhaps if I spot a lot more of them...
@lurkerhasarisen I wasn't proposing "hypergamous widow tears" seriously. Well, perhaps if I spot a lot more of them...
hypergamous widow tears
I don’t like it. We’ve always given widows a wide berth because the purpose of WAATGM is about women who blame men for the fact that men don’t want them. Obviously that doesn’t apply to widows, so they are simply beyond the scope of the sub.
The two reasons I’m okay with criticizing her are 1) her status as a widow is her fault (she’s divorced), and 2) her complaints are completely unrelated to her status as a widow.
She’s not lamenting the loss of the love of her life (she divorced her husband and then went out of her way to slam the next guy post mortem)… she’s just a bitch.
@lurkerhasarisen I'll post it on Saturday then perhaps as leftovers? Perhaps a new flair could be created: "hypergamous widow tears"?
This one is rather special in that she clearly has a bad attitude overall. This begs the question about widows in that while we can pity them losing the love of their life (doesn't sound like she had much love left to give him...), is it proper to pity widows in that they locked down a man in their youth because with their SMV/RMV peaking at that time, their insufferable hypergamy and entitlement were at least manageable?
Only due to divorce laws being so harsh against men do we see men staying with such women. This ties into the recent posts I've made of leftover women in their late 40's and 50's who are frustrated that older men (they desire) "prefer" younger women in that youth is the ONLY thing such women are bringing to even a casual relationship table.
What's offensive about hypergamy, after all, is that someone denies love and affection to someone unless they can profit FROM them so it's rather difficult to feel empathy towards someone who withholds it from others for business purposes.
We have labeled this behavior as "feminine", but if you think about it, doesn't it sound rather masculine to be this cold hearted and reptilian? Like something a warrior or factory manager would do to increase profits while women are idealized by romantic chivalry as the opposite? Of being soft, gentle, and submissive?
Read MoreThe only reason we sidestep widows is that their lack of a committed man isn’t their fault. (It would be a good idea to add such a disclaimer.)
That’s not what she’s wrong about, so her status as a widow is irrelevant. Anyway, I get the impression that she wouldn’t even be a widow if her first marriage hadn’t ended in divorce (probably because she’s a bitch).
@moorekom @lurkerhasarisen @Land_of_the_Losers What do you think of widows?
Perhaps not appropriate for WAATGM if widows are off the table but otherwise she's a leftover as an older woman griping about men desiring young women. What do you all think? It sounds like she has a track record of not being very keen on men regardless.
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