@Bozza I'm wondering if this is a good use-case for women friends. Not the "let's just be friends" women who are pity dumping you, but actual women friends who really have your back. I have plenty of women friends who are married, from childhood, cousins, etc. Bottom line is: If ANY pretty woman or authority figure is treating you with respect, the women follow.
Hobbies? "My older sister was into vinyl but she had strange tastes so she gave me her reject albums and those turned out to be the classics! After that, I got into collecting!"
@First-light Ok, same crazy aging spinster who got her eggs harvested at 38 yo. She's going on a hysterical "rape" rampage: If men said something to please her to get her into the sack, she claims to be a rape victim. There was even a community note posted on it. I posted a response to her that modern women have rape fantasies or engage in risky behavior so perhaps they should tone down the histrionics? That's what set this one off.
@Vermillion-Rx @First-light asked me to post some of the crazy exchanges I have on X with women who are accustomed to being pandered to in college and on dates and when men on X don't toe the line. They usually respond-and-block or "yell and run away" at some point which this one did. I had said all I needed to say so no skin off my nose. I never have seen them just block WITHOUT responding first.
I have edited out her handle to avoid charges of brigading against this forum. It's wonderful how fragile their egos are when just a little bit of pushback is given.
@Bozza I had hoped that postings on WAATGM and WATGMA would be reposted to Reddit and traffic drawn to there. If I see myself tagged out, I'll certainly join in. I suppose it's a challenge to follow all the forums I belong to already including amspec, X, and WAATGM and WATGMA.
Saw this on X. It's women's stated rankings versus what they actually pick. Higher means lower ranked. What matters is what is outside of the line.
I have found a translation (thanks Grok!). Checking on whether this qualified for weekday content!
I found a strong and independent woman perhaps good for weekday content but with a catch: En Espanol!!! Can someone create a translation transcript? Feel free to take credit: x.com/i/status/2028892075513557104 Tiktok source: www.tiktok.com/@dravirginiasacco/video/7611605216940543240
@Vermillion-Rx In the (weekday content) preview I showed you, she complained about wanting a family and children and such so that's pretty commitment. It will be discussed on wednesday when posted.
Let's consider: 39 year old women now were basically 21 about, say, 2008. That generation of women came of age when dating apps had just come out. They started to gain traction just as these women got out of university and due to MeToo and Anita Hill, the number of men hitting on them at work was largely depleted.
I saw back in the 1990's that women were starting to see the well dry up but not as bad perhaps because the full socio-economic impact hadn't yet fully metastasized. By Y2K, they had true "equality": There weren't any more boomers of elder GenX guys to latch onto. All the millennial men were earning (yuck!) the SAME they did. Yuck yuck yuck!
Now they have a fucked up (pardon the french) economy and society they created. We hear how happy they are single and buying homes but the bills are literally coming due. The cost of (literally) living is sky high. At 39, the river in egypt (denial) can no longer flow. It's make or break and they're broken.
FYI, my wife had my daughter at age 39. (Long story, let's just say Chernobyl and Anthracite Coal country played a role). But that was a miracle child and I kiss her every day. You don't win by planning for miracles, you plan to not need one.
Read More@Vermillion-Rx There's a lot of good material out there. The problem is Rule 5 in that these women are so utterly delusional, that they refuse to talk about "commitment" since they believe that marriage is largely just single women hanging around men for a while collecting resources until she gets bored. They don't even bother with the presumption of "commitment" or marriage. Note: I saw this metastasizing during the 1980's when women shamed each other for saying they wanted to get married and probably why a man talking about marriage or family before sleeping with a woman in normal dating now is an "ick" that gets her turned off.
@SwarmShawarma Thanks! I have a LOT to catch up on this weekend but will try to watch them.
