@deeplydisturbed

I am contemplating making my response into a post (after expanding it if necessary) shortly so that it can be added to the sidebar. In the future, any such women can and should just be redirected there if they want advice. To my recollection, we do not have much advice for women, except for some posts that @aldabruzzo made in WATGMA. We might have to find some and link them to the post as well. We do not need more than one post to cover this scenario. Our advice is mostly geared towards men since we are geared towards men. We should never compromise on that.

I hear you about the traction part. Most men, no matter what they say, will still have some beta in them because they are conditioned since childhood to be like that. It is not their fault. We're here to learn and to educate. We have to remember that we have all kinds of men on all kinds of stages in their journey here. Those of us who are further along the journey can guide the ones at the beginning, if we choose to. I simply chose to, in this instance because I had the time and it caught my attention.

@moorekom

I didn't intend to come across as being critical of any particular comment - I just was this flair and this person's posts got more traction than just about anything I have seen in MONTHS.

That's my main issue - plus the other caveats.

And, I agree that we should not censor. I would just recommend that going forward, we send whamyns to the side bar and then encourage them to ask questions from there. Because that is what we do to men.

If they cannot understand these simple instructions, they should be treated the way any man would - fairly, but harshly.

Of they can GTFO.

I will refrain from comment on the sticky. I think we should let the fun continue. It's a learning experience for me too. Watching the deep need for men to come to a woman's rescue even in a place like this.

It's pretty surprising if I'm being completely honest.

All it takes is the claim of a vagina. That's it. And too many men just cannot help themselves. But they all think THEY are not the simp - they are just trying to blah blah reasons blah.

@deeplydisturbed

I responded because I saw most of the other responses and they were the typical red pill kind and too much time is being spent on this nonsense. My response was supposed to be one and done. She really does not need any more advice as it was intended to be comprehensive, which is why I stickied it. Whether she takes it or not, is up to her. I don't intend to respond to her again. This is not a correspondence.

That said, I agree with your scepticism and do share it most of the time. For all we know, this "woman" is probably not a woman at all. There are two reasons I think we should allow responses:

1. We do not want to restrict conversations provided they stick to the rules. We moved to trp because of reddit's censorship. We can recommend people to stop responding, which I should have clarified in the original post, but we can not remove anything yet. If this were posted in forums, it would have been deleted as the focus of the forums is different. Since this is a hangout spot, it is not as easy.

2. We have selectively allowed women to get advice from members in the past. Yes, they are very rare and sometimes it was intended for entertainment, but provided they stuck to the rules, they were allowed. In this instance, this woman, if she can be trusted to have been faithful in her representation, is the opposite of what we showcase in our subs. Giving her proper advice is a good way to show that we don't do anything out of hate as the claim usually is. From the outset, it looks like she approached us in good faith and we've responded in kind.

I think we should sticky a comment asking people to stop responding since almost everything has been covered in the stickied comment. I would defer to you or @lurkerhasarisen to make and sticky a comment since you've already brought it up. If neither of you want to, I will.