I’ve got a big case of Oneitis. Was talking and hanging out with this girl for 2 months. She liked me more than I liked her in the beginning, for sure. Game was 100% on point, no mistakes, first time I’ve ever managed to do that probably. However, she then began to be cold towards me. In the beginning, I played it off really well, didn’t care and all that. However, after she flaked on a date, I showed some weakness/neediness. Decided to cut her off because I respect myself too much to give attention to a girl that flaked on me. I stopped talking to her for 1 month. I have to be honest, in this one month, I missed her so much. I realised how much I really liked this girl. Before, I not only didn’t like her SO MUCH (I did like her though, don’t get me wrong), but now I’ve fallen in love with her. Therefore, 1 month later I sent her a message to hang out sometime, and she was up to it. She even initiated conversation with me (gave some excuse that she needed help with with something). Told her I was going to a club near her house (that lots of my friends were going) and she only replied hours later with “kkkkkkkkkkkk” (laughter in Portuguese). Please help me, I’ve become deluded. Does she not find me attractive anymore? Is there a possibility she is playing hard to get? No way I believe. She doesn’t even try to continue conversation anymore. Please help me, how should I get rid of this oneitis? I hooked up with 2 girls at the club last night, but my mind is still thinking of her. I just want to cry, honestly. Fuck. Still a bit drunk from last night.