@MigosXdd No, you should only move forward in life. She and her mother are both best left in your past.
@Trp108 Strange question. Well personally I respect some women, for instance my mother and a few others. Doesn’t mean I respect hypergamy and feminism, though.
I’m sure you will eventually find some women you can respect. Until then, try treating women with basic human decency.
E.g. if you want women to like you, don’t act creepy/scary/rapey around women. They will tell every other woman they know what a freak you are. That’s how you minimize your chances of getting laid.
Forgot to add that’s ofc hinging on the test coming back as a match.. obv.
@XtrmlyFlustered79 I disagree with the previous poster.
If I were you, I’d refuse to do a paternity test until you’re ordered by a court.
Now if that’s been the case (sounds like it). Your outlook should be you’re not going to get involved in this kid’s life because you don’t want to and putting yourself in as an unwilling dad WILL fuck up this kid.
So if you have a change of mind, that’s fine. If not, that’s also fine.
I also would fight against any claims for child allowance etc. That shit is immoral and you have every right to refuse.
Basically, she can have your sperm dna but she has no right to force you into paying for a kid you don’t want with a woman you don’t want MORALLY speaking (courts are immoral).
So power thru it, and avoid getting dragged into any arrangement that will make you bitter.
If you can be in this kid’s life without being bitter and toxic then yeah I’d consider it, having offspring is generally very valuable although you might not see it that way today but they are yours even if you hate their mother’s. And you generally have a lot of shit in common and can have a giving relationship be it as child/dad or just friends.
Read More@Trp108 You did one thing right and that was leaving.
You just shouldn’t have made a big deal out of it and gotten angry.
Next time just say that’s cool, but that you don’t feel like hanging anymore so you’re leaving.
You basically want to give her the impression you don’t care much because you can just pick up your phone and dial up another hoe who WILL give you sex.
You’re young so you’re still growing thus your metabolism is considerably higher than an older man’s.
You need to eat even more calories. Probably around 5000 kcal depending on how much of your training is strength vs cardio.
You should try Starting Strength also it’s a good program for packing on mass as a junior.
” should I have kept going even though she said stop?” No pussy is worth the repurcussions you may face.
Keep your ears open, she may be going round saying things about you now.
Short answer: no, you should find a new girl.
To me hooking up means fucking so I don’t see what escalating further means. You sound young so maybe she didn’t enjoy sex with you. Did she cum? If this happens a lot to you consider that your technique may not be as good as you assume.
@Portobello3610 I don’t live there but this description rings just as true in my european country, AWALT.
The bartender in that environment is very alpha. Just imagine the number of women that come on to him. He picked one slut for an earlier night and now she’s basically alpha widowed and desiring him forever. Her friends probably think it’s cool to get free drinks too. Especially true if younger/broke ass bitches. Grinding on you is just to get his attention. You were just too drunk to see her glances and body language.
A lot of slut women think a blowjob is not sex so a woman thinks she is not cheating trash when she ”only” sucks your cock. To say what exactly went wrong we need more details about that encounter.