Hey bros been on and off rp for years, so who else to share thoughts and make a decision with. I was in a LTR with a 6.5/10 nothing special but a body to die for. I was using this as rotation pussy as my main plate the sex was crazy. She kept bothering for over 6 months for a ltr which I gave in. Kept her around as a main and was cheating with multiple plates behind her back like over 30/40. Ltr ends up pregnant 6 months in and we agreed on an abortion and she refused on the day. 9 months later there’s a child which Im meh about because her mother has a N count of 10-12. Not the smartest, lacks real education. So the only thing we have in common is sex and great sex at that. I stay around to help out with the child I refuse to move in: we continue like this for a year - I’m around 2/3 days a week. She ends up pregnant again after a year. I still have the same schedule 2/4 day to see ltr and kids the rest is spent gym, high paying job, I’m 28 and into martial arts and many sports. This whole situation is the only thing dragging me by the balls. Ltr doesn’t ask for much she just wants to get married she is asking me either marriage or we seperate (she doesn’t like the freedom I have). She has been totally catering for me cooking daily cleaning daily everything including a great mum.
So what’s stopping me marrying her. 1. Over 10 N count, 2.lack of education and brain capacity 3. Her family are essentially typical white trash with no futures.
Do I really want to put all eggs into this basket. However I’m worried about the impact on the two kids they are 1/2. And without me facilitating and being around there futures will be bleak. I do know that I don’t want to be a step dad (a guy who’s around every other week) I’d rather be all in or all out. So if I decide to not marry her I’ll have to totally abandon ship. And find a ltr and marry someone with a lower N count and a bit smarter.
Or am I in too deep and learn how to swim - marry her and turn her into a submissive slut and totally dominate this situation. Would like some additional non vanilla thoughts on this. Thanks!
What's done is done. If you don't want to marry her, then don't. There's no loaded pistol to your head or knife to your throat.
For now, consider wrapping your tool with the other chicks you're banging to reduce the chances of creating more baby mama drama and hold off on thinking about any 'should I, shouldn't I' decisions on the topic of commitment until after you discretely get the kids DNA tested. A spit coated cotton swab in both of their mouths sent off to the lab, and a few weeks later you'll know for sure if they're your offspring.
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