I mean that a guy who has oneitis for a girl is like candy to her. She'll gobble up the free attention but because he's offering something for nothing she won't gain attraction or respect for him in the process. Sweet tasting but no nutritional value and bad for all parties if not eaten sparingly. Our Young Chadawan Kenaicane should read the Red Pill sidebar.
@MentORPHEUS Yea so she “hearted” my text just now. Would it be too much to text her tomorrow and see if she wants to call later cause she’s leaving to come here soon? (We do this now and then) Or should I just go a bit cold until she starts the conversation?
@Kenaicane Probably overthinking. Give it time. Also work on your abundance mindset. Oneitis is bad for men but candy for young women.
So I’ve been dating this girl for some time, we live in different countries but have met several times, had sex all that felt connection cause of my work being in her hometown.
She’s traveling to visit me next week and gonna be staying here for 2 weeks.
We pretty much talk daily or every other day, 90% of the time she’s the one starting conversations. So she sent me a nude out of nowhere and I replied with a compliment me look forward to seeing her again, with some teasing comment. She always replies, but this time she didn’t say or react to it and it’s been 12 hours. Am I overthinking or is something wrong?
Unless he is blatantly gay they fucked.
By what logic do you base that on? Women have mouths and anuses just as appealing for sodomite use as any sodomites penis would be to a comparably degenerate female.
Assuming you ever come back here to read these replies, you're only doing yourself a disservice by not investing into some reliable ready reference to keep on hand.
@Kenaicane Don't bother responding to a females txt msg's and make it a policy to only call a gal you're dating only to arrange a date. Your continued ease of availability will reduce her interest in you over the long haul, so get a hobby or learn to 'spin plates'.
If she's got a smartphone and social media, you're likely dating a dopamine addict. The only time having the attention of those sorts works to your benefit is when you limit their access to you to when you're both face to face in person.
Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". The guy writes a weekly advice column and runs a podcast from his site. While his media is a bit pricey, it's well worth the investment. However, you should be able to find copies through piracy torrent sites.
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@Elvis Thank you for this, I really appreciate it brother.
So this girl I’m dating wants me to call her, we talk and 20min into our conversation her roommate, a guy starts talking to her and they begin laughing and shit bla bla. I tell her I got stuff to do and hang up. Now she texted me that it was super rude to act the way she did. I’m just ignoring her right now while being productive with work. How do I respond to this?
