@LegendITM

First Post, sometime yesterday:

I need urgent help!

Good day everyone. I have been a silent reader in this space for quite sometime now and it has been really helpful.

I started being actively in game last year and it has been great. Just a minor challenge.

I am having a huge issue escalating to sex when girls come over. I have read the sidebar so the preliminaries before sex are not my issue.

Here is how i usually do it:

1. I make small talks with them to get them comfortable.

2. If they are not sitting closer to me, I invite them or I playfully collect their phone or something which forces them to leave where they are and come to where I am

3. After some minutes, I compliment something on their body: either their hair, dress or earring, anything while touching them lightly at the same time just to gauge receptiveness.

4. I start touching them on their laps while still talking. After sometime, I slip my hand into their shirt to grab their breasts while kissing the neck. I meet resistance.

5. I withdraw. After sometime, I try again, same thing. I keep trying but same thing keeps happening.

I don't know if its my approach that keeps getting in the way. It has happened to four girls so I know the problem is from me.

Second Post made three hours later:

I need your advice.

How do I improve my escalation game when I have a girl over at my house. My game is shitty and doesn't work for me.

Can you share tips or methods you use, i'll appreciate it.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.