Are women as one night stand oriented as men? I've noticed a trend, I can pull chicks pretty easily but when it comes to the 2nd date, things get rough. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong in particular, the first dates either ends up with us feeling each other up or fucking, but it is somehow hard for me to get to date number 2 and to make her a plate eventually. Is that normal or is there an issue with execution on my behalf?
@SeasonedRP good response indeed, I already wrote something different though. I hit her up with something along the lines of "let's not put any labels and see where it goes", worked fine.
Shittest? I accidentally started a random convo with this chick on fb. We talked a bit (we have never met or talked), I asked her out for a drink, she agreed. During another convo, while setting the details, I used the word "date" and she said something like "date? it's a friendly dinner". Is that a shittest or am I tripping?
Answer in any way or leave it? To cut the long story short - I met a chick from another, nearby city on tinder. We chatted quite a bit, set up the date straight away, she was supposed to come to my city but on the day of the date she told me she was sick and we should reschedule. We did, next weekend comes, she flakes again, dead silence until today (we were supposed to meet 2 days ago). She wrote to me with apologies and all, shall I coldly accept the apologies (without saying anything else) or leave her on read?
You gave her a chance and she blew it. Stop bothering her, she's clearly not interested. Just block her and take some time to do things that leave you with a sense of fulfillment and confidence in yourself.
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Answer in any way or leave it? To cut the long story short - I met a chick from another, nearby city on tinder. We chatted quite a bit, set up the date straight away, she was supposed to come to my city but on the day of the date she told me she was sick and we should reschedule. We did, next weekend comes, she flakes again, dead silence until today (we were supposed to meet 2 days ago). She wrote to me with apologies and all, shall I coldly accept the apologies (without saying anything else) or leave her on read?
Does anyone have experience in hitting up a girl through Ig DM? We follow each other, like one another's photos but that's all. I've never met her in real life and I won't have an opportunity to approach her in real life any time soon. Shall I straight up ask her out for drinks? She doesn't post much to her story either, so it's hard to respond to that, too.
@Zavss I've gotta tone it down a little, I am aware. This girl is just too fine though. Gotta prepare my mindset to not suffer from oneitis. That's why I've got another one lined up this weekend.
@redhawkes well, about 2 hours after the post she hit me up herself, so we are back in, boys.
Double text or not? I went on a date with this girl, she was damn hot and not that bad for a chat either. Anyway, I think things went fairly well. I texted her the day after, telling that I enjoyed her company and I want the second date. She replies that she'd love that and that it's her duty to invite me out now as I invited her for the first one. I told her that I'm waiting for the offer then and she didn't reply. A day has passed, shall I hit her up with another text or let it go?
