@dirtymikeandtheboyz

cold response after great first date

So went on a date with this girl who I thought was really attractive. Fit all the checkboxes and all that bs.

The date went really well I would say. I took her for a coffee ->then a walk -> then a bar. As the date progressed she was making hard eye contact and even asking me to make future plans. As we leave the bar she asks me to walk her home and we make out on the way there. We make out in front of her building and then i tell her good night.

After the date this was the text convo:

Me next morning: had a nice time last night, did you sleep alright? (we were both kind of passing out at the bar the night before)

Her: replies back at 5ish PM that day: had a nice time, slept well etc some bs about her day, asks me about my day and sleep

me: replies back at 12 am that night: some bs about my day, we should do it again sometime

her: replies back two days later: hearts my message, yeah definitely asks about my weekend

Me: replies the next day: just said some bs about my weekend and asked her about her weekend (i didn't really feel like asking her out after a two day response)

Her: radio silence...

Was this a fuck up in my text game after the date ? or something im missing during the date? Should i have went for the close that night?

I didn't even want to go on the date initially, she was the one that asked me out and I was surprised at how much I liked her at the end of the night.

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