@viscros

SCARED TO HAVE SEX

I am not a virgin and I get opportunities to bang decent shawties.

Soo I am not really scared to have sex. Don't know how exactly to describe it.

The thing is I live in an Asian country. You can't really pump & dump chicks here. You need to go through a whole charade before breaking off with them.

The problem is it feels like too much work now tbh. I havent even have had sex with too many girls, and already the effort these women demand is exhausting (both pre, during and post "relationship").

Any solutions? I am still young. I don't want to feel regret later that I didn't go through enough chicks cause I was too lazy at that time.

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@viscros

How to escalate???

following TRP for sometime now. Have started getting dates and they usually go well. The dates are fun and light, and most girls agree to a follow up date then and there.

My problem is I am not able to close. I haven’t even managed to kiss any of these girls. I just don’t know how to put myself in a position where I can kiss her. Idk why

What can I do to correct this? I would like to kiss close these girls.

It reads like the problem isn't that you need to escalate, but that you lack the confidence to follow-through and close with a kiss. Until you can muster the courage to kiss the girl, you won't develop the confidence necessary to escalate or progress.

Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.

@viscros

So I recently started following the RP tenets, and have started chatting up with some chicks.

There’s one chick, she’s not the hottest but she is like freaky. Freaky texts, took her out on a movie date, and she literally jumped on me the second the lights went out. We made out the whole movie and by the end she was on her knees but the movie ended sadly lmao

I didn’t do anything with her after the movie. Literally catches a bus and went home. This was like the first time something like this happening to me and I was too pumped or shellshocked lol.

Went home, she talks about going to the movies again. Even hinting at HJ/BJ there. And ofc she has been “subtlety” talking about hooking up as well.

So 2 things: -> firstly; this is the first time something like this has happened to me. I have been around girls, but none so straightforward & freaky. So I am having troubles. All the time at the movies my brain was screaming to just walk out of the movies idk why. I had to force my brain to stay and make out with a girl. Yeah it’s that bad

-> secondly; I cannot stand her when we are not doing stuff like this. She’s borderline ugly and her personality is annoying and pretentious. I want to blow my brains out whenever I am around her.

Can anyone give their 2 cents about these two things?

Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.

So I recently started following the RP tenets, and have started chatting up with some chicks.

There’s one chick, she’s not the hottest but she is like freaky. Freaky texts, took her out on a movie date, and she literally jumped on me the second the lights went out. We made out the whole movie and by the end she was on her knees but the movie ended sadly lmao

I didn’t do anything with her after the movie. Literally catches a bus and went home. This was like the first time something like this happening to me and I was too pumped or shellshocked lol.

Went home, she talks about going to the movies again. Even hinting at HJ/BJ there. And ofc she has been “subtlety” talking about hooking up as well.

So 2 things: -> firstly; this is the first time something like this has happened to me. I have been around girls, but none so straightforward & freaky. So I am having troubles. All the time at the movies my brain was screaming to just walk out of the movies idk why. I had to force my brain to stay and make out with a girl. Yeah it’s that bad

-> secondly; I cannot stand her when we are not doing stuff like this. She’s borderline ugly and her personality is annoying and pretentious. I want to blow my brains out whenever I am around her.

Can anyone give their 2 cents about these two things?

So I recently started following the RP tenets, and have started chatting up with some chicks.

There’s one chick, she’s not the hottest but she is like freaky. Freaky texts, took her out on a movie date, and she literally jumped on me the second the lights went out. We made out the whole movie and by the end she was on her knees but the movie ended sadly lmao

I didn’t do anything with her after the movie. Literally catches a bus and went home. This was like the first time something like this happening to me and I was too pumped or shellshocked lol.

Went home, she talks about going to the movies again. Even hinting at HJ/BJ there. And ofc she has been “subtlety” talking about hooking up as well.

So 2 things: -> firstly; this is the first time something like this has happened to me. I have been around girls, but none so straightforward & freaky. So I am having troubles. All the time at the movies my brain was screaming to just walk out of the movies idk why. I had to force my brain to stay and make out with a girl. Yeah it’s that bad

-> secondly; I cannot stand her when we are not doing stuff like this. She’s borderline ugly and her personality is annoying and pretentious. I want to blow my brains out whenever I am around her.

Can anyone give their 2 cents about these two things?