1y ago  The Hub

I think I'm yet to fully swallow the red pill - Specifically the anger and disdain I feel towards women when they flake, cancel, slow ghost, straight up ghost, lie or anything else that is objectively poor behaviour. I live by my honour, I speak the truth to them and I believe I have integrity. They don't.

I know it's female nature. I understand that. And I know I shouldn't expect them to behave like I do - For the most part, I don't. I expect them to behave like whores. But when it happens I'm still butthurt. Still. After years and years of this shit happening.

I'm experienced. My N count is over 100 by this point. I'm good at game, my SMV is relatively high. I've got my purpose and I work towards it.

For the more experienced gents here - How did you fully internalise this red pill? I think I'm 80-90% of the way there, because it doesn't hurt as much as it used to. But there's still the lingering feeling of distrust, disdain, anger and even hatred. This isn't productive or beneficial for anyone, especially myself.

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1y ago  The Hub

@fumbor A lot of them say that, even when they're in your apartment in just their underpants they will say "we're not fucking tonight" and 15 minutes later you're balls deep in her.

For this date, I'd say just play it cool. Just because she said that, doesn't mean she wants it. They don't know what they want. Just be a chill dude, like @Vermillion-Rx said, just play it cool.

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1y ago  The Hub

@fumbor It's hard to know how to help you without specifics - Do you lift? Do you dress well? Do you look like a guy that girls wanna fuck? How are you acting on the dates? Are you too friendly/giving non-sexual vibes?

You don't have to answer these, just think about them yourself and be objectively critical.

It sounds like maybe you're too thirsty, which is an instant turn off for girls. I know it's hard in your situation to not give a fuck and have abundance mentality, but maybe it's a fake it til you make it situation.

Cofee dates are fine. I use them to screen potential plates. I usually give them very little, but a little bit of light flirting, teasing and DHV can go a long way. The more you act like a guy who fucks, the more you will fuck. Hope that helps.

Also if your friends are fucking, they're a good group to be around and learn from. Do they know your struggles? If so, you can lean on them a bit, learn from them and maybe even go out with them to do some night game.

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1y ago  The Hub

Girls don't know what they want. Period.

Been seeing this 21 year old muslim singaporean girl for 2 weeks, she sucks my dick like a woman posessed. Last night after fucking she said "I was gonna ask you all this stuff, like if you're seeing other girls. Are you?"

I said "Yeah I am, I'm not gonna lie to you" - Then she cried herself to sleep in my bed.

This morning she pulled this "If I see you again card" then promptly gave me a passionate blowjob.

They don't know what they fucking want. Don't pay them any mind.

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1y ago  The Hub

@Kloi You have giant balls sir.

I went to Thailand earlier this year (basically easy mode for picking up if you're jacked), had my shirt of all night one night and had this HB7 Dutch girl hitting on me mercilessly, but she was drunk as fuck and not my type. I must have rejected her like 5-6 times. She even told me she had a boyfriend too. I was sitting there chilling for most of it, just smiling so hard at her knowing I had 0 interest in her (plus had another girl there I was gonna fuck later anyway, which made my girl so much more into me lol).

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1y ago  The Hub

@Acela_nextel I really don't know what you're complaining about. Just politely decline them

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1y ago  The Hub

@Acela_nextel Maybe consider your SMV and where you game

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1y ago  The Hub

@fumbor Don't stress dude, developing a rock solid frame takes years and many, many mistakes. They're necessary on the pathway to chadhood.

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1y ago  The Hub

@fumbor I'd highly recommend reading Woujo's work, he goes over emotional investment, frame and sexualisation in great depth.

If you can bench 2 plates you're good, for now. But never stop going to the gym. Get obsessed with it. I'm 31, been lifting on and off since 18, seriously for the last year and a half, and only over the last few years has my body been good enough for women to constantly compliment it. They love it.

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1y ago  The Hub

@fumbor It's okay dude. You sound young and lack the experience to bag this one. There will be others, just take the lessons from this and apply it to the next one.

Oh and fucking lift.

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