Being a single mother by choice is child abuse. It's not a casual, normal, human story as it is presented. It's a tragedy.
The Colorado shooting was understandable, that club announced any age drag shows coming soon. That was a person standing up against the perverts and freaks.
So the shooter identifies as non-binary. What a plot twist.
I think it's basic maths that identifying is transposable, so someone who identifies with them is non-binary too, no?
@adam-l I love my job (trade, really), but I'd absolutely work fewer hours and take more days off if my wife and I weren't trying to pay for bad decisions in our past.
These are bad decisions I made while I was completely in her frame, deferring to her, trying in vain to please her with that "happy wife, happy life" garbage in my head. Decisions I would not have made solo.
[To be fair to her, she's doing her part to make things right. Since I'm rarely home except to shower, eat, and crash for the night, almost every single chore falls on her, including traditionally masculine ones. She's been busting her ass, too, which is part of why I'm still with her.]
Most men work soul-crushing jobs, and keep them to raise their kids and pay for the missus' things, so that she'll love him. It's not that these jobs are creative of meaningful or something. And it's not that they can risk changing careers once married.
So, yes, marriage makes you work more, and yes, more work=bad.
@adam-l Agree they are independent. I'm telling him don't overlook the traditionally feminine qualities in your quest for an intellectual unicorn. Over the long haul these will be more important than an extra 5 percentile ranking inIQ over pretty smart.
The woman I dated had the cunning sense to project greater femininity to me at first than her natural baseline and identity would sustain.
I have zero SEXUAL results because I don't escalate.
It's not a technical issue. You still have the Blue Pill conviction at heart, that you'll find a woman capable of love. Women didn't evolve to have that capacity. Realizing that is what "taking the Red Pill" means.
You have to go gaming in contexts where it doesn't affect your current social life, and go crash and burning. Gather some experience, see how things are for yourself.
Decide that you'll purposely burn the first few "soul mates" you find. Then, "escalation" will be easy.
but only enough intelligence that she doesn't birth you retards eventually.
I think intelligence and bitchiness are independent. Sure, a clever woman will find clever ways to be a bitch, and that's infuriating, but a stupid woman will find stupid ways to be a bitch, and that's infuriating too. And anything in between.