Typo-MAGAshiv

about a day ago  TheRedPill

@woodsmoke I did similar when I was young. I wish I could go back and slap some sense into my high school and early college self. I wasted so much time and effort on girls who weren't and never would be interested, and completely missed out on girls who were mega into me. Combination of nearly-fatal obliviousness and one-itis.

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destraht

2 days ago  TheRedPill

who were the pimps

For the foreign audience, not real pimps, just a sayin' for a guy who can easily pass through women.

destraht

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@woodsmoke If I could do high school over again I wouldn't ask for a single woman's number who wasn't already giving me the hard fuck me eyes. I would have done well to do nothing, and then to hit super hard on the spot once one went above and beyond in showing me interest. California teenage chicks could be very obvious about showing interest.

I just hate how ageist that I was, and it really fucked me up. I somehow felt that it was wrong to date a chick two grades younger, even though I was a year young for my grade. So basically I shut down some of the hottest chicks of those grades even though they were only about a year younger than me. That was incredibly retarded, and a large reason why I almost wasn't getting laid during those years even with some solid interest. I'm sure that I went home and jerked off to these chicks that I wouldn't allow myself to go after.

Furthermore, there were some rather old guys in high school who were the pimps, and they were like 1.5 years too old for their grade. One of them stayed back for sports in the 8th grade. Then there are the massive numbers of Latinos who were two years older than stated. They were macking it. I could have been doing the same thing.

Oh well.

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woodsmoke

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@Typo-MAGAshiv Personal security measure I developed to prevent self-sabotage. I screwed myself over a number of times by clinging to the thread of hope the friend zone seems to offer, to the point I missed IOIs from a few other girls with whom I'd have been perfectly happy because I was too busy carrying a torch for the one who didn't want me. Somewhere in my late 20s I realized I could block and delete a girl's number to make a clean break and prevent myself falling into that trap again.

I'll grant it's a drastic step to take but, well, sometimes drastic action is needed to correct BP conditioning. Obviously this doesn't work if it's someone you'll see again in the general course of things, and if you have proper abundance mentality or just zero fucks to give it's unnecessary.

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woodsmoke

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@lurkerhasarisen Fair point. I suppose blocking is more of a personal security measure. It wasn't really an option when I was growing up either and I screwed myself over a number of times by clinging to the thread of hope the friend zone seems to offer, to the point I missed IOIs from a few other girls with whom I'd have been perfectly happy because I was too busy carrying a torch for the one who didn't want me. Somewhere in my late 20s I realized I could block and delete a girl's number to make a clean break and prevent myself falling into that trap again.

It certainly can be petty but, in my case, it really had nothing to do with the girl in question. I'll grant it's a drastic step to take but, well, sometimes drastic action is needed to correct BP conditioning. Obviously this doesn't work if it's someone you'll see again in the general course of things and if you have proper abundance mentality or just zero fucks to give it's unnecessary.

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Typo-MAGAshiv

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@crazystorypt2

There's several ways to handle this.

My 2 most likely responses based on what you've shared:

"cool, but bear in mind, friends pay their own way" and continue to push. If she still rebuffs your escalation attempts, next!

or

"I was pretty clear what I was looking for, and I have enough friends already. Good luck on your search" and leave the ball in her court.

The blocking thing, I only did that when one was incredibly annoying or psychotic. Usually just not messaging anymore was sufficient. I'm not sure why blocking is so popular with the younger crowd; I'm not a fan of burning bridges unless necessary.

Tag @woodsmoke - why block in this situation?

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Typo-MAGAshiv

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@Apollo he hasn't reminded, but I will

AlphaBetaCuck

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@snatchman I actually have been thinking about a tattoo. I’m not ready yet but when I come up with the right idea, I’ll do it haha

AlphaBetaCuck

2 days ago  TheRedPill

@snatchman

I agree on taking action for sure. It’s part of why I started posting on here to share my journey and get some accountability. I’m on a world trip right now and will be in 13 countries in two months. I’m more than halfway through and, I’ve been on a few dates during my trip and have been really putting myself out there. Have had my share of successes and failures. I got a few good stories to share on here, assuming I don’t get attacked by AFCs

SeasonedRP

3 days ago  TheRedPill

@crazystorypt2 If you are interested, ignore what she said (and don't have anymore "what are we?" or "what are you looking for?") conversations. Go get tacos and act like you would with a girl you were on a date with. If it doesn't work out, don't call her anymore. Learn to ignore much of what women say and instead focus on their actions toward you.

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