Missed opportunity?

Cute customer came in to my store today. While I was ringing her up she was kinda giggling and staring into my soul, talking about random shit. Didn’t think much of it but after she left I told my female coworker I thought she was cute and she said she probably thought you were cute too. (I guess girls have a better eye for this stuff which seems obvious).

The customer came back in a while later to buy another item she said she didn’t want. Then she started talking about how there was a guy following her and how she wanted somebody to walk her to her car, like mall security but she said she couldn’t find any (which seemed sus since they’re always walking around and highly visible).

I told her I would’ve offered to walk her myself but I’m on the clock right now (my poor attempt at flirting) and she was like ohhh ok, maybe I’ll just wander around until the mall closes until I see a security guard, thank you tho.

What do you guys think?

@Lionsmane8

Well, to illustrate my point, let's talk of this very attractive final year architectural student I picked up around last year.

Despite her perpetual melancholia, she scores highly on the SMV scale and decently on the socio-economic one.

It went nowhere as at that point, she was being flaky and I, short of patience was pursuing other more "enthusiastic" options.

Fast forward to the last few months, and we run into each other often, and quite often exchange flirty looks.

Now this culminates where I run into her hanging out with a past hook up of mine (law student).

Now, most likely my past hook up must have told her about our night out as she would do the typical interested female behavior of hovering around you, giving you ostensive looks and an exagerated lordosis position.

So I break and I end up texting her, curious about what my past hook up shared with her about our intimate outing.

She denies hearing anything from her (sure), she doesn't care about our intimate lives (uhuh) and that she's been engaged as that is why she said she's been distant with me.

I wish her a happy future and end it there.

I eventually end up running into her with her supposed "fiancé" a couple of times.

Not much older than her, very basic template beta boy who thinks he stumbled onto a magic fairy.

Quite frankly his SMV seems below hers and he's barely out of school just like her (what a coincidence).

Seeing these sorts of assortments more than once, I understand the pair up. She knows guys higher in the SMV scale won't commit to her.

They're here to smash for free, fuck with her emotions and drive off to greener pastures. This blue guy on the other hand, he'll stick, he'll treat her like a princess, he'll do the dishes and "he'll wait for it".

Can't blame her.

The alternative would be loneliness for her, or being Chad's (or rich guy's) plaything.

@carnold03

Well, to illustrate my point, let's talk of this very attractive final year architectural student I picked up around last year.

Despite her perpetual melancholia, she scores highly on the SMV scale and decently on the socio-economic one.

It went nowhere as at that point, she was being flaky and I, short of patience was pursuing other more "enthusiastic" options.

Fast forward to the last few months, and we run into each other often, and quite often exchange flirty looks.

Now this culminates where I run into her hanging out with a past hook up of mine (law student).

Now, most likely my past hook up must have told her about our night out as she would do the typical interested female behavior of hovering around you, giving you ostensive looks and an exagerated lordosis position.

So I break and I end up texting her, curious about what my past hook up shared with her about our intimate outing.

She denies hearing anything from her (sure), she doesn't care about our intimate lives (uhuh) and that she's been engaged as that is why she said she's been distant with me.

I wish her a happy future and end it there.

I eventually end up running into her with her supposed "fiancé" a couple of times.

Not much older than her, very basic template beta boy who thinks he stumbled onto a magic fairy.

Quite frankly his SMV seems below hers and he's barely out of school just like her (what a coincidence).

Seeing these sorts of assortments more than once, I understand the pair up. She knows guys higher in the SMV scale won't commit to her.

They're here to smash for free, fuck with her emotions and drive off to greener pastures. This blue guy on the other hand, he'll stick, he'll treat her like a princess, he'll do the dishes and "he'll wait for it".

Can't blame her.

The alternative would be loneliness for her, or being Chad's (or rich guy's) plaything.

@Lionsmane8

Where I'm from, every "quality" chick has a college education or is pursuing one.

The ones that don't are either directly prostituting themselves or doing some form of soft prostitution.

Either that or they are involved in some low value job or are farm girls (not in the city).

But I did notice a trend, that is why I am making mention of it.

The trend is, I attract girls involved in some form of engineering, medical, business (economics, management, finance etc.), mathematics or architects.

I get hits with all except for the architects and medical girls.

The architects seem higher value on the outside compared to the med ones and I kind of promised myself to get at least one good hit with a high quality architect.

Educated professional women are both a threat and a liability to those who tolerate their presence, not an asset. You're clearly working through a bang 'bucket list' of types of women. Interesting hobby, I guess.

Those gals will likely be the toughest nuts to crack as they're aware their Industrial Market Value (IMV) and Sexual Market Value (SMV) in theory should grant them access to high IMV males. The problem is, that as a females IMV increases, the available selection of local high IMV males decreases. She can't fulfill her hypergamous biological imperative without additional IMV investment, because few males she would desire will allow themselves to be involved with being cuckolded, in polyamorous relationships, or educated spinsters.

For a moderate to high IMV female with high SMV, they have three main options going forward:

1. Join a high IMV guys harem.
2. Share a rotating open stable of stallions, who will have their own open inventory of plates, that will slowly diminish in quantity and quality as her fertility declines with age.
3. What they believe the western woman has, exclusive relationships with moderate to high IMV/SMV males they don't have to share, with opportunities to boost their own wealth reserves and secure an comparative upgrade in husband IMV by means of frivolous divorce.

The jokes on them though. The average western man isn't marrying until a decade after completing college, well into his thirties which is around your age, if I remember correctly. This change in mating behavior heralds both the forced genetic dead-end of the high IQ segment of the worlds population and the decline of divorce as a means of wealth building for hypergamous females.

The challenge with the third point is that in order to maximize her odds of success, she must expand her mate selection to include foreigners who're inclined to engage in a bit of exoticism. Unfortunately, this increases the odds any future children she gives birth to will not see themselves as culturally Moroccan in any significant way, which as western countries will show is dangerous if your society allows the culturally disconnected offspring of such relationships into your societies elite.

That you're observing that most of these educated professional women have secured relationships means that they're nominally aware that they've already reached the assortative mating SMV/IMV bottleneck. This is interesting as their adherence to tradition enables them to hurdle the Neo-pagan hamster wheel to secure some degree of relationship intimacy and contentment.

@Lionsmane8

Females with strong frames?

Recurrent theme here.

I keep attracting and running into these very beautiful female architects or architecture students. All top notch, stunning facial features, hot, good social background, polite and polished. Perfect fit for me.

Talking to them is easy, getting the number and even flirting. That being said, those conversations and initial attraction/connection goes nowhere.

I find these ladies to be inflexible and have very strong frames, so much so that collapsing into a man's frame is very difficult for them. They prefer to have control.

As it is, these women tend to always be alone, and if in a relationship, they are with obvious betas and it is evident that they are the ones holding the reins.

Not sure how to capitalize on the attraction and move things in the right direction (for me).

Also, needless to mention, I do not want to fall for their "tying down a husband" tricks (Muslim country here).

Modern colleges and universities are hubs of Neo-pagan indoctrination, regardless if its the Enlightenment, Marxism, or some other branch of Neo-pagan thinking. You've lived in the west. You've seen firsthand just how miserable and repulsive the women with college/university educations here are, especially when they realize that the options to marry up decline the more education a female has.

If the situation is that you're encountering more difficulty with college/university educated females, regardless of their respective relationship status, I would initially suggest you decrease the number of women you engage with who're college/university attendees, or graduates, while increasing the number of women you date who haven't attended college/university as that would be the first steps to help you in identifying at least the external elements of the problem.

@oliver-improvement

O Should I focus on money, girls, or studies?

Discovered the red pill about a month ago, I've been going to the gym for about 2 years now and it's become a non negotiable in my week. I'm just confused as to what I should focus on.

I'm in my final year of high school, I have a job making me $400-$500 per week, I have an above average physique and my grades are not the greatest. I have a side hustle pressure washing pavement, windows and garbage bins that I was thinking about scaling.

I still feel like I need to experience being young while I can, and I don't find it difficult to get invited to parties.

Let me know your guys opinions.

When you get a chance, sit down, and make a list of the things that you want to do with your life that you've put off for whatever reasons. Don't worry about how silly or stupid the idea might be, just write those ideas out. On another sheet of paper, re-write the things from that list in order of simplest to most complex. Yes, I know that you've already written a list, but just re-write them in that order, it doesn't need to be perfect. Once you've done that, start working out how to accomplish the things you're written down on that list. If you encounter any problems and no one you know can suggest reference materials, swing by again and let us know. With how you've otherwise described your life, you've clearly got a good head on your shoulders and I honestly think we'd probably give you the wrong information just to appease our own egos, except in one regard.

That, being women. Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.