@MidgetSpinner

Submissive girl I'm seeing suddenly poured on massive shit tests

Been seeing a girl for over a week now. We've been frequently meeting, staying over at both my place and hers. Things have mostly been very good between us - great sex, great chemistry, great intimacy and affection, great conversation etc.

I spent all day with her today (mistake) for the first time, and things were smooth sailing as usual, but then in the evening she started to become very playful and manic almost. I don't mind the playfulness, as I can be playful back, but she was becoming a bit too much in other ways, for example:

She kept calling me gay this, gay that. I was just ignoring it mostly, or teased her back. I'm no stranger to shit tests or joking around at someone's expense, but she kept doing it and doing it to the point it was getting tedious.

Another thing was that she then started implying I was some sort of a bitch saying, "she fucks me" (she doesn't) because I like it when she gets on top and rides, and then the final straw was her getting out a vibrator and rubbing it against my nipple. I put up with this for over an hour, and then decided I had enough of this attempted emasculation bullshit and left.

Before I did, I told her straight up that she was being a bit too hype and annoying and that I was leaving. She said, "well this is part of how I am, if you don't like it then go". So I did.

This girl is 1000% into me, and I do like her too - everything was cool but it was almost as though she was a completely different person last night. She went from being this sweet, affectionate and compliant girl I'd been experiencing all week, to some bipolar/hyper aggressive girl all of a sudden. It was strange, it felt like she was actively trying to push me away.

For context: I'm 37 male, she's 28 female. She has been consistently obsessed and devoted to me the entire time we've been seeing eachother. I'm not saying she lost any interest tonight, but her weird fucking behaviour put me right off.

I'm just wondering if anyone could tell me wtf this sudden behaviour is lmao. I haven't messaged her since. I didn't get angry or defensive, I just simply said "You're being a bit too much, and I'm going" and I just left.

Of course she tried to push you away. You're thirty-seven years old with one-itis for a chick you've only known for a few weeks. That's a red flag if ever there was one now matter how unstable the female herself might otherwise be. Study the book and maintain discipline.

@MidgetSpinner

I'm basically invisible to women at the moment, and not sure why.

I'll try to keep this brief, and if I'm breaking any posting rules then please let me know.

Putting game aside for one second - this is purely based on looks alone, or presence perhaps.

I am a good looking guy. I always have been. Had zero game during my late teens up to 21, and that's mostly due to isolating myself, but I've never not had female attention, even as a kid. As I am currently, not much has changed physically, I'm merely a little older at 36, but as men, thankfully we age like wine.

This not a day to day issue for me or something I even really think about often, but it's something I have been noticing lately and it's this: Whenever I'm out in public doing my thing, I've noticed that women basically do not look at me anymore. It is like I am invisible.

Contrast that with a couple of years back, or practically my whole life prior, it's like night and day. I don't really know why that is. I might rarely get a girl check me out, but it's very very rare lately.

I'm a guy who likes to look for signs of interest, and in fact I can't switch that off. I used to be very good at it, but if no one is sending me signals then what's the point lol. My only guesses as to why this is happening is either I look like shit and I'm indenial/blind to it, or I'm not projecting confidence. If it's neither of those things, then I am lost. Can anyone provide any insight?

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