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MidgetSpinner
1w ago  The Hub

Top kek.

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carnold03
2w ago  Ask TRP

@MidgetSpinner

isn't this the same Doc Love that Corey Wayne harps on about every chance he gets? I might check it out actually. Thanks man.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mg74CHW-Lu0

Thanks for making me aware of Corey Wayne. Looks like he's indeed been positively influenced by Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary".

I'll definitely have to make time to read Mr. Wayne's book, "How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams" before plugging it on the books tribe. Again, thanks for that.

    

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MidgetSpinner
2w ago  Ask TRP

@carnold03 isn't this the same Doc Love that Corey Wayne harps on about every chance he gets? I might check it out actually. Thanks man.

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2w ago  Ask TRP

@MidgetSpinner

I'm basically invisible to women at the moment, and not sure why.

I'll try to keep this brief, and if I'm breaking any posting rules then please let me know.

Putting game aside for one second - this is purely based on looks alone, or presence perhaps.

I am a good looking guy. I always have been. Had zero game during my late teens up to 21, and that's mostly due to isolating myself, but I've never not had female attention, even as a kid. As I am currently, not much has changed physically, I'm merely a little older at 36, but as men, thankfully we age like wine.

This not a day to day issue for me or something I even really think about often, but it's something I have been noticing lately and it's this: Whenever I'm out in public doing my thing, I've noticed that women basically do not look at me anymore. It is like I am invisible.

Contrast that with a couple of years back, or practically my whole life prior, it's like night and day. I don't really know why that is. I might rarely get a girl check me out, but it's very very rare lately.

I'm a guy who likes to look for signs of interest, and in fact I can't switch that off. I used to be very good at it, but if no one is sending me signals then what's the point lol. My only guesses as to why this is happening is either I look like shit and I'm indenial/blind to it, or I'm not projecting confidence. If it's neither of those things, then I am lost. Can anyone provide any insight?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

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1mo ago  Ask TRP

@MidgetSpinner

so confused, dude. But I guess that's the point lol

    

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@carnold03 so confused, dude. But I guess that's the point lol

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Is this sarcasm, or are you actually saying I'm the Thinker contemplating the fate of the damned?

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1mo ago  Ask TRP

@carnold03 Is this sarcasm, or are you actually saying I'm the Thinker contemplating the fate of the damned?

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Are dating apps a problem now, or is it me?

Immediately, I will be honest and say I'm a little lazy with dating apps. I swipe right on everything, and then filter out the matches after the fact, but I don't believe it would matter even if I didn't - in fact, I'd probably have less matches.

Here's the issue: Basically all of my matches are with women I don't consider to be in my league. I don't have a distorted or warped view of myself, I know my worth and I know the kind of women I'm capable of getting, but for some reason it ain't happening on these apps anymore.

Back in the day (pre-covid), I approached these apps with the same laziness, and got wayyyyy more matches, and much better options too. What has changed? Because I'm pretty certain it isn't me, and I know I'm not the only one who's noticed this.

Edit: Could be because I'm a little older now, but I doubt it. More than likely it is because online dating has shifted more to social media platforms such as Instagram where attractive women can advertise themselves much more easily for very high value men, leaving all the lake monsters and decrepid single mothers for dating apps. Probably a lot more complex than that, or maybe it's that my face is not en vogue post-covid. Maybe they can detect that I'm not an esteemed, vaccinated soy lord. No idea, that's why I'm here.

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@MidgetSpinner

Download tinder on either a burner or settings for "only show me to profiles I've swiped on" (so you don't like a faggot), make your looking for "men", and then browse top picks.

That is the easiest way to see what the best male profiles look like. Some of them aren't even Chads, they just have incredibly photogenic pics of them having a great lifestyle and bio that is a cherry on top. But top picks is where your mystical profiles are.

It's worth doing for research purposes

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