Hi guys how are you, i need your advice this time, I been dating a girl for a year and a half now we are both exclusive . she never showed signs of cheating o slut behavior, one day months ago i discovered that she followed a college teacher on Instagram, that teach subject ‘ x ‘ it it’s very strange here in my country, after that she uploaded a story studying subject ‘ x’ she never uploads nothing it was very strange. Weeks after that one day she was asking me if i talked to girls in college or if they approach me, and i have that card in my pocket and i told her, your question makes no sense to me, is like if i’m jealous of a teacher, after that she deleted him from her instagram, it’s very strange and idk how to deal with this break up ? i need your honest opionion i don’t know what to do, she had sexual interest in him 90%.Read More
@MentORPHEUS @DanielLarson exactly what I would have said. Just to emphasize mentorpheus’ point. I did what he said once, shrugged it off, didn’t explain myself. Said “happens to the best of us” and the girl told me weeks later (without me asking) that she couldn’t believe how calm I handled it and that she knew she found someone mentally strong.
Remember, women like to see you stay calm in the face of social pressure. It’s one of the ultimate DHVs. Don’t explain yourself. She’s testing you if she’s offended.
The best mindset for dates with women in my opinion is “nothing is ever a big deal”. I think I got it from RSD years ago. If you act like that, really, nothing is a big deal.
@DanielLarson This happens now and again. Sometimes even with women you fucked just fine before and after. As you noticed, the remedy is not to raise a fuss about it, just chill for a bit and the problem will solve itself before too long.
Trick is just to play it off chill and routine. I'd avoid explanations like nervous/anxious/tired etc. Just act dismissive, mention boners can be unpredictable, maybe suggest yours has poor taste for going soft with her, but after all the little guy is blind and all. Usually spooning and cuddling for a few is all I ever did as a "remedy" and was back in the game within a matter of minutes.
Whatever you do, don't get all in your head about it. Trying to conjure a boner on demand is like trying to make an unfamiliar cat come to you. The harder you try, the more elusive your goal becomes. Ignore it for a few and it'll be rubbing your leg.Read More
I Couldn’t cum with new LTR
Things got frisky but halfway through I went soft and didn’t cum. She seemed really offended so I said I was just nervous but she still seemed offended. Ended up getting back into it after half an hour ish and came that time and she acted normal and pretended the going soft incident didn’t happen. What’s the best way to proceed after that? I’m 22 and don’t watch porn but I’m on medications that make it harder to orgasm. Saying I was nervous seemed like a better idea than leaving her offended or explaining all about meds, not sure if that was the right call though
Feeling that my genaration ( Gen Z ) is really fucked up
TRP started by me observing how fucked up my routine was as a kid , vidya , porn , terminally online . Instant gratification with no consequenses . Every interaction with girls that went somewhere turned out completely BPD and wanting daddying or else they would drop you , and see how moody and closed they are , I believe they were also victims of our dehumanization of porn and awful parenting as they default on extreme inferiority and abuse given the chance . I am this point of resentmen about women of my gen my stomach turns upside down , I had dropped many opportunities cause all give me such negative fucked up vibes , hell I have chose most of the times a modest 5 milf over a couple of 8 teens .
I went upside down considering my mental health the last 3 years and now I find it harder to impose this dom TRP mindset whitout feeling somehow loser and the girl as a complete whore , cause I'm in this point in mindset , body , looks , game that I can get most . BUT why they all seem so pathetically fucked up ? They function like they have a chanel of their brain watching Friends , another watching a two hour gangbang while there is a commentary of some bossgirl on happiness affirmations .
Should I accept it as a FACT they are as fucked up as I am therefore treating them with kindness or go back taking SSRIs so I look the part and go as the wind blows ?
“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained, you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”
It's good to read that you've joined us on your journey. While it's unfortunate to read that you and much of your generation have had such an awkward go of life so far, I pray in time you come to understand you're not alone in that regard and that there's more to the red pill than women. I hope that when you make this realization, you focus yourself into engaging, and overcoming your bad habits, pushing to overcoming your life of mediocrity, and working towards being the man you imagine you'd be more satisfied with seeing in the mirror every day.Read More
- A girl who cheats on her guy already shows a lack of self control, making her maximally plate material
Yup. If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. It's only a matter of time and circumstance.
- (And this last point is only my personal morals) I would not want someone to fuck my girl.
Golden Rule. Simple and effective.
@gundow I am millennial but from 90s. I was born in village and spent there 18 years. I am basically a dinosaur. It was sad for me to see children spending their time in shopping malls with phones and eating mcdonalds. Now it is even worse because they don't even go out. And just look at what facebook wants to do with VR. It will happen, basically a dystopia. People were spending their lives in world of warcraft and other games, 100% even more people will spend their lives in VR.
I don't even know what's worse, the overall brainwash, the fall of family, boys raised without fathers. What I am sure is it is going wrong way. We just have to deal with it and have a good life and have fun. But if I think about it then we are totally fucked up if you would ask my grandma. It was always like that. Women were basically always kind of fucked up, always restrained by old school thinking of mothers and grandmas.
As far as I know every woman would want a huge motorised dildo in her pussy all the time if only nobody would know about it. All about sex since beginning of times. The more fucked up, pussy ass men raised by only moms the easier it is for me. Until they change system to communism.Read More
@Ninjawimp So to sum this all up - you're 18. I'm quite a bit older so let me give you some advice an old timer like me would give. You're 18 - it doesn't matter at this point. You're going to grow up and as you mature and become a grumpy old guy, sure you might think to yourself "I wish I respect their relationships a bit more", maybe. In 5 years, many of these girls will meet their future husbands (if they're around the same age). In 10 years they'll be divorced and in 15 years they'll be a single mother of 1-3 on Tinder looking to get fucked. Have fun while you're young, fertile and a stud. Do what you want, as often as you want - as long as their boyfriends aren't crazy and show up to where you live wanting to kill you - which happens more so at this young stage of your life.
Stay hungry King.Read More
@Ninjawimp tbh I having plates is something I am not yet able to pull cause most of the time I was to get some rando she would mention a bf I would be extremely turned off , but I always continued to a indirect implication of sex just for the fun of it from where I would leave her . Reason is if she has a bf ,( which many times I knew for a fact they had ) , she prob has a guy that fucks her raw 2-3 times a week ? I'll pass . idk tho , probably im weird