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Yup. Even if she's from the few who can truly be trusted, it isn't worth it to rely on her ability to be consistent. Because...
#Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!!!
If her tubes are tied or she has an IUD, sure. Because she doesn't have to do anything about her bc. But if you have to rely on her to consistently do a thing - like taking a pill that's set up for dummies - you just can't rely on her for that.