#fieldreport #diary

Met the chick on a social night. Interaction wasn't too long. Got her number, got 'lazy' text exchange, set up meetup where I have led her to eat my first meal of a day, got her chips, told her it is on me if she gets coffee in another place. Walking the street noticed funny clothing shop where I pretended she is my EX. X is what I have called her whole day as I didn't remember the name. While pretending she is my EX - I have run few jokes about how we shouldn't meet as we are already done and if our partners find out, they would be upset.

From the street got her to shisha bar. IDK but I was really relaxed like they add something to it. She completed that saying that girls find this kind of calmness sexy.

At some point I have put my hand on her spine and it just stopped her talking. From now on I was making fun of her using it: whenever she was talking a bit to much I was pressing her at the back 'switching her off'. Soon she joined pressing me. Soon after She was holding my hand on her legs and soon after again - while I run 'are you a dude' joke - she shamelessly slid my hand into her crotch. Some talk about boner/boners and other shit talk I don't remember. SHould have used microphone that I have had on me anyway for this purpose.

Later I was pretending to hit her with pipe, to which she replied she prefers that more than smoking it.

Parking run out, so I asked her what interesting has she got in the are she lives and we'll meet there. I other place I have stated we are not ordering anything but chat for a bit on a couch and go separate ways. She went for a kiss, once I have put my arm around.

Tried to seed to get invited to hers as I was living too far. But wasn't bothered too much knowing that first meet fuck leads to short term plates and I prefer committed long term plates.

At some point I got up and said it is time to go. She asked me to walk her to car - invited me inside. It ended with short but intense petting.

Things to correct: I was possibly too needy [possibly initiated too much touch ], should have bounced sooner [likely], should be better prepared with venues [they were random], need to be careful of DEER stuff as it possibly slips in places, need to record

Good: I usually neg too much [did better this time], good spontaneous leadership, very relaxed teasing