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4mo ago The Hub
Met the chick on a social night. Interaction wasn't too long. Got her number, got 'lazy' text exchange, set up meetup where I have led her to eat my first meal of a day, got her chips, told her it is on me if she gets coffee in another place. Walking the street noticed funny clothing shop where I pretended she is my EX. X is what I have called her whole day as I didn't remember the name. While pretending she is my EX - I have run few jokes about how we shouldn't meet as we are already done and if our partners find out, they would be upset.
From the street got her to shisha bar. IDK but I was really relaxed like they add something to it. She completed that saying that girls find this kind of calmness sexy.
At some point I have put my hand on her spine and it just stopped her talking. From now on I was making fun of her using it: whenever she was talking a bit to much I was pressing her at the back 'switching her off'. Soon she joined pressing me. Soon after She was holding my hand on her legs and soon after again - while I run 'are you a dude' joke - she shamelessly slid my hand into her crotch. Some talk about boner/boners and other shit talk I don't remember. SHould have used microphone that I have had on me anyway for this purpose.
Later I was pretending to hit her with pipe, to which she replied she prefers that more than smoking it.
Parking run out, so I asked her what interesting has she got in the are she lives and we'll meet there. I other place I have stated we are not ordering anything but chat for a bit on a couch and go separate ways. She went for a kiss, once I have put my arm around.
Tried to seed to get invited to hers as I was living too far. But wasn't bothered too much knowing that first meet fuck leads to short term plates and I prefer committed long term plates.
At some point I got up and said it is time to go. She asked me to walk her to car - invited me inside. It ended with short but intense petting.
Things to correct: I was possibly too needy [possibly initiated too much touch ], should have bounced sooner [likely], should be better prepared with venues [they were random], need to be careful of DEER stuff as it possibly slips in places, need to record
Good: I usually neg too much [did better this time], good spontaneous leadership, very relaxed teasing
Read More4mo ago The Hub
@Antelope continuation
I'll continue. For now without dwelling into past.
She 'owes' me now several escorts, several friends, several strangers, several thousands. I'm not obsessing about it.
Also I'm not saying that at the end of it there is anything for her. I have sent her a message [ass cover like] stating that she can do whatever she wants but I INTEND NOT TO reciprocate to whatever I'll get, but she is free to leave anytime. NSA.
She already "knows" it is not just a threat as I have cut her off for several months after not following my rules. She probably tries wait me out or whatever, but I make her to do the things for me form the list.
I told er to get only escorts that lick pussy. I think she couldn't find one like this, on short notice and ignored the girl doesn't do it, as I have starved her of dick for a while [not on purpose].
Each thing she supposed to do is number of stars on a scoreboard. Escort has a lowest value on it.
Recent #fieldreport
So we're in the hotel and cute indeed escort says she doesn't eat pussy. I take my chick on a side and tell her that 'I go home' as I'm not participating in sex where escort doesn't eat her out [my chick denies on doing lesbo only action so I'm required around with my dick being sucked etc]. I say she can keep me around if she goes F-F action only and I will enjoy watching. But I reassure her I will not punish her for being reckless this time if she is not ready for this. All that will happen I go home. I don't want sex to be negative experience so I state she can also quit anytime and not punishment will be applied.
After some tears and snotty bubbles girls get action.
In the end whole interaction went well, was fun and sexy.
I have A&A'ed and disciplined verbally escort. I have focused on a plate body language. I could see she liked the escort and played with her a bit with cute tenderness.
Few hour later when I fucked plate I have seen plenty of eye whites. She never begged me so much and loud for a dick before.
Read More5mo ago The Hub
I have tried to put it in words several times, but can't really make up my mind what do I think about it.
I got this chick. IDK autistic or some other disturbance.
She basically pays me for "therapy", quite a big buck. Therapy is that I'm patient and explain her stuff in non aggressive but often direct way, fuck her, she orders prostitutes when I want and I fuck both of them. I don't have any regrets doing any of it as this is hard job and if this would finish I got something material and non - out of it.
I try to stick to my code of conduct. Which is not to judge harshly. But since I got more educated about women I have decided to charge for it.
I have one more regular plate. Slowly work on more and more quality.
Worst shit is I don't have someone to have a look into it and tell me stuff I might not see.
She tries to convince me she loves me so much. And apparently I'm the worst guy she had. Which would mean that I don't let her get away with shit.
It is not a full story.
Read Moresome months back I was asking how to get on with height, so I don't shit myself going hiking high.
Progress is satisfactory.
Ultimate test on my training ground is now standing 10cm away from edge of 70-100m cliff with closed eyes, opening them after certain intervals [of up to 1min] to cause perception shock and doing various movements with arms while closed eyes to get used to get some imbalance.
At the moment mostly afraid of loose dog that will like me a lot and that I will fall asleep [meditation state/ forgot where I am]
Guys intimidated with this ballerina chick didn't ask her to dance after classes just hovering around her. I have first danced with some other OK chick and then with her. She didn't want to leave me for a long time. Dilated pupils - check, big loops earrings - check, nervous - check, followed to destination away from people - check. Me pulling the trigger - fail. That is 2nd time me not pulling the trigger this week. Next step kicking this lazy anxiety to curb.
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After you've given the book a good read, try to make it a goal when talking to females you're interested in to exchange home phone numbers. If all she has in a mobile number accept it, but always ask if they've got a home phone number. The worst that they can do is say no to you, but the worst you can do is nothing at all.
Read MoreGuys intimidated with this ballerina chick didn't ask her to dance after classes just hovering around her. I have first danced with some other OK chick and then with her. She didn't want to leave me for a long time. Dilated pupils - check, big loops earrings - check, nervous - check, followed to destination away from people - check. Me pulling the trigger - fail. That is 2nd time me not pulling the trigger this week. Next step kicking this lazy anxiety to curb.
Life without wingman.
I was solo last night, hit on a chick that was suddenly left on her own after some other dude engaged her friend. Got her outside escalated, got her to tell me she has some cheese I like at her home, she also offered to feed me sausages she bought for her niece. I told her to tell her friend she has to go.
She is all ready - I left her to deal with that and can see she puts on her jacket, talks to her friend and takes of the jacket, they both leave in 10min.
1y ago The Hub
I remember that I came back from holidays where I couldnt manage to close this chick, she led me on a bit.
Then I have connected with her on Skype 1000s miles.away to read her some bulshit.
Sexd on holidays is/was so easy that even with being blue like.that I was able to total over 40
I cringe so much I better press post
I came to Zagreb three days ago. Yesterday I came with a 19 yo Croatian girl. #daygame #fieldreport
I expect a lot of hate for that story but I don't care. It was worth it. #daygame #fieldreport