Just realized even though I'm not happy where I'm at, I am way ahead of any person I know when it comes to finance, relationships, and women in general (thanks to this forum). It's very difficult to find people with a similar mindset, and I almost always end up being the mentor in my circle. Wish I could find some people IRL with a similar worldview, but it feels like I bore whoever I'm talking to because I really only have either business, my calories, or the gym on my mind. I feel like a walking stereotype, lol.
@NeoSpartan Okay, thanks man. I just have some deeply rooted issues and I’ve been getting rejected all my life. It’s really fucking disheartening. I won’t stop pushing forward. I’ve been struggling with getting better photos because I don’t go out at all.
Tinder has been up for 24 hrs and it's not working very well lol. I've been cutting for 4 months and it's actually incredible how I still don't get attention from women. Feeling very bitter and very frustrated tonight. Guess I'll just keep cutting till I have a 6 pack. Honestly a huge drop in self esteem because I've been very happy with my progress so far
@Zavss i think I’m at the point where I won’t actively go out of my way to approach women unless there is one that really sparks my interest. I’m not hungry for pussy but I’ll make sure to approach if the girl seems worth the effort.
@Antelope you’re right man, I was excited to get into the dating app scene but I don’t have the patience for this dogshit. Approaching definitely sounds better, but in all honesty I’m beginning to realize that I don’t even care about women as much as the status that comes with when you’re fucking them. I just think it’s important to have the social skills and confident to approach when you really do spot someone you want to meet and get to know; for me, that hasn’t happened yet.
Fuck boys Tinder is tough, I’m pulling matches every couple days but can’t set shit up. At least I’m doing it the right way; few texts of small talk, then go straight to asking them to meet up. Women flake like crazy. Some unmatched, some have ghosted, but most importantly they all share the common trait of being full of themselves, even the fat ugly ones. The great thing about this is I don’t give a shit about getting rejected anymore, but I am getting tired of putting in effort into this app. I understand why so many people here preach on approaching women in real life instead. Truthfully, I feel like i have a very hateful worldview towards women in all honesty. Just needed to vent this out. At least my body transformation is going well and I’m actively seeking to improve my life. Progress is being made somewhere.
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