O Can I get advice on how not to break girls heart? I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. Shes a Shes the hottest girl I have been with, and she pursues me now (I just recently became able to pull attractive girls but fail to continue the relationship) she cooks for me, massages me, treats me really well, shes sweet to me.
Last night she told me Im the only guy shes seeing (I did not ask her) and asked if talking serious would make her uncomftorable. I was kinda taken back and just said Im not seeing anyone else either (cause im not I am starting up a business I am not chasing new girls rn). She hand wrote me a card this morning before she left saying how much fun she has with me and how much she likes me.
However Im moving in two weeks. And TBH I do not know how to approach this. Were suppose to hangout on Tuesday but I think I have to tell her tonight Im moving because I dont want to break her heart. But at the same time I still like hanging out with her.
Yea, the timing is definitely f&%$ed with St. Valentines Day coming up, but as Neil Sedaka once sang, "breaking up is hard to do." If you're moving in two weeks then breaking up soon is for the best. It leaves you both free to find someone local to your respective locations, without the concerns of a long distance relationship hanging over your heads.
When you cut her loose, be ready for the tears and don't worry about giving her a hug and kiss. Let her know that she's an awesome gal, that it really wasn't her, but it just wouldn't be fair for her to be pressed to maintain a long distance relationship seeing her friends getting actual face time from their guys while she has to settle for letters, video phone calls, and texts.
Read MoreCan I get advice on how not to break girls heart? I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. Shes a Shes the hottest girl I have been with, and she pursues me now (I just recently became able to pull attractive girls but fail to continue the relationship) she cooks for me, massages me, treats me really well, shes sweet to me.
Last night she told me Im the only guy shes seeing (I did not ask her) and asked if talking serious would make her uncomftorable. I was kinda taken back and just said Im not seeing anyone else either (cause im not I am starting up a business I am not chasing new girls rn). She hand wrote me a card this morning before she left saying how much fun she has with me and how much she likes me.
However Im moving in two weeks. And TBH I do not know how to approach this. Were suppose to hangout on Tuesday but I think I have to tell her tonight Im moving because I dont want to break her heart. But at the same time I still like hanging out with her.
Read MoreWhat is a good resource on genuine convos to have with girls after the first few dates?
Ive been acting crazy lately. I have decided to really chill out from the constant seeking of sex from new partners and pleasure and decided to try and get to know 1-2 plates on a deeper level.
However I have a hard time figuring out how to do this without coming off as lame or boring. Talking deep with your boys is different then with a girl.
If anyone has any resources itd be greatly appreciated!
@Vermillion-Rx I never meet her she doesnt even know I exist and friends with my ex. How would I approach?
@Typo-MAGAshiv so she said she can do Friday and Saturday. We booked for Friday but moved to Next Tuesday cause Ill be gone this week.
I still have a date tonight with a girl Ive been seeing and a new girl tomorrow.
@MentORPHEUS We already have a date set up for Friday. But I have to leave thursday AM
@EndlessSavage Wouldn't be shitty of you, but will probably prove to be a shitty strategy for you as women on OLD. 10 days is like a year to you in the amount of people that contact a woman. You're likely to get lost in the crowd if you're not available to meet her as soon as she's ready. If you do make a match and start communicating, over the 10 days she's likely to drop off.
Try it and see, and compare results to people you hit up after your trip for more immediate dates.
Is 10 days out to far to plan a date?
The hinge gods have been blessing me lately. Literally 3 of the hottest girls I could bang have recently been all over me. Asking for dates. However I am going away later this week till Sunday. I know the hotter the iron the quicker you cook.
Would it be shitty if I booked a date for next Tuesday or Wednesday or even Thursday if todays Tuesday?
Dry spell? I had a past few good months. In the last 6 months I went from incel to a new girl once every other week. Banged about 10 girls. Could have banged more but either me cancelling dates or me making out but choosing not to make it another date.
However recently my hinge has been weak (before you say OLD doesnt work I usually get 5-10 matches a day and 1-2 dates every week.
However I am back in a dry spell. I no longer have that insane momentum and Im back to jerking it off to cuck porn and hating myself. Its almost like I love hating myself and dont even enjoy success. Can anyone relate? Is this part of rhe journey? I thought once Id start seeing success Id never look back
