2y ago TheRedPill
Guys need some advice, the other day, I went into central London, I am from London, I went into china town with a mate and we decided a quick Chinese meal, we walk into the restaurant, and my phone starts ringing, and its a Colombian girl I'm talking too, but i thought she was at work so i ignored the call, then she called again, and I hang up again, then she messages me saying I see you in the Restaurant! so i say Hello on whats app. Bearing in mind iIam with my mate so i didn't want to be rude and leave him on his own while i speak to someone who i sort of know. So anyway fast forward my mate goes to the toilet and the Colombian girl gets up to get a drink and as she walks past me I say Hello, but she ignores, i pay the bill i leave. So fast forward about 10 mins, the girl starts texting me saying I am fake, I didn't say Hello, I tell her I did but you ignored, but also she was with someone who I thought was her brother, but now is apparently her "boyfriend". I told her that she has legs too, she could have come over and said Hi, but she chose not too, also I informed her I did say Hi but she chose to ignore it, I haven't event messaged her on whats app since that day, but I also haven't blocked.
do you guys think I did the right thing in telling her that she could have come over and said hi? should I block her on all apps?
Read More@Jigsaw137 Here's one of the sources of your problem:
usually I am bored and humour myself so I speak to her
When you talk to her about dumb shit regularly, you've taught her that she can talk to you about dumb shit. If you stop doing that, you'll teach her that you don't.
Annunciation and punctuation.
Tell her to find some girlfriends to gab with then radio silence.
So I was speaking to a girl on and off and recently she messages me when she wants something usually I am bored and humour myself so I speak to her, she was telling me this guy wanted to be FWB with her and I said I don't give a shit fuck off, how can I stop being some ladies emotional tampon, this always seems to happen to me, I just gone back to the gym in the UK as they are open and starting dieting again, but is there anything more I can do.