I have a great relationship with myself.
Came to my parents home for the week-end. I read some of their feminist books and threw them all into the bin. One of them was about how to raise boys & girls - I almost threw up. I burned them before throwing them out so that no one could ever read those pages. Look at what you made me do, feminism. Destroying books is awful.
Rather than whining about how difficult it is to beat bad habbits, get present. The truth is, you are the one in control. All you have to do is be aware of what's happening around you and inside of you. Then, when you find out how something is sabotaging you under the radar, it becomes a piece of cake to make adjustments. Presence is key.
A long time ago in high school, I gave my girlfriend two stones that I picked up randomly. She still has them. Two stupid, useless stones. It has much more meaning to her than the car her BB husband bought for her. Guess who's getting laid tonight? #plate4life