Girl asks me how to choose a counsellor. I tell her ApexMindset guy.
Couple of weeks later I asked her did she check him out.
She says he is very expensive.
I ask how much.
$1000 per 1h.
I'm like 'nah not possible. Thats probably some package'.
Then couple of weeks later I still had this price at the back of my mind so I went and checked.
And it really is 1k for 1h. NGL they got me in both halves.
@fumandobebiendo I cant post to forum so
really wish this didn't happen. Please help me get back from this, like how to re-gain frame or SMV in her eyes? How can I 'reset' things?
See the 'picture. Its not collecting coins and mushrooms with unlimited number of lives.
I know, I own it. That's why I'm here asking for help, I don't have a victim mindset, I just want to find out how to maneuver this like a Chad, she was the closer I could ever find to a unicorn / potential wife
Your story is as far from the chad as it was at the very beginning of your life. Go and build a car tomorrow. When you finish come back I'll tell you how you are becoming a chad in few days.
I for once would say there ia nothing bad in hiring PI. Chad is NOT marrying he does not need a PI.
You dont say but you communicate your plans were more serious.
Yet you dont start with PI. You start by being a Chad, sharpening your instincts and then if you have any further plans do whatever you want even hire the PI. Woman if she is an investment should be treated Like one.
When you send PI after her you relay learning to someone else. When you hire women for proof you relay this to other sources and dont know how it really looks and how to behave realistically.
Sure you could (not) go this way another 60y. But since all your weakness are still your weakness and you didnt calibrate your behaviour it would bLew up later anyway.
Plus you might would go fucking mental. Plus you would stop believing reports bc of oneitis.
Saying that is there anything good about this event?
Sure.
You know that social proof works, you dont know how, but you have seen it working.
If you are not stupid, after the grievance period you will understand you have learnt something.
If you have this kind of cash to burn watch ApEXmindset videos. If you are disturbed you might use his council (I never did)
(I was very stupid on not deleting them but she never ever asked for my phone before so I had no idea she was going to do that)
You saying this means you dont even know where you did go wrong. And this is basic knowledge, because you should feel it in your guts. If you dont know this basic level stuff I will assume you dont know any basic stuff.
No one will read sidebar for you. None will socialise for you.
If you have this kind of (PI) cash to burn show grattitude to life for you can have better start than many.
Read More@Kloi thanks for reminding me I have one in the drawer, unused for couple of y. Now back on a hanger, ready to go
We dont like hordes of men inviding the shores and claiming shit for free.
Including assets Like wet holes.
What happened to Ukraine?. Uno reverse. They send women to other countries.
I cant exactly imagine how the Ukrainian army holds up. Millions of women left(and continue to) to settle for a dick abroad and the soldiers die for what exactly?
These dudes are getting royally screwed.
