@adventurousman79

Plate abandoned trip, dread game ?

• talking to this chick she’s from another country we’ve met a few times

• I told her in a casual conversation I’m going overseas (to a country)

• she said initially omg take me with you

• I said ok , and then we planned a trip to a country 3 days together

• one day prior she bailed saying her flight got cancelled and can’t make it the transit is gonna cost her too much yap yap yap a really long paragraph . I was going to go anyway. When she bailed I stayed non reactive, and said no problem.

• I was going to this country anyway with or without her so it’s not a huge deal. In this country I’m having luck with lots of women.

• I was wondering if I upload a story to Instagram with other women will this employ effective dreadgame ? Or will this look try hard.

Neither you nor the location appealed to her enough to follow-through. These things happen. Maybe you're disappointed that she flaked on you after several days of planning, but those feelings should be mild at best. How would a queer idea as an instagram photo journal of you having fun change that though?

Focus on enjoying yourself treading upon foreign land and fondling foreign girls. Afterwards, study the book and recruit new chicks to take the flakes place in your inventory.

@adventurousman79

What’s the best way to gauge / ask for a chicks body count prior to agreeing to an LTR with her ?

I want to know the most ideal way to get a chick to answer what their body count is (as honest as possible), if considering her for LTR.

• Should you downplay it like u don’t care and then asses / ghost accordingly
• At what point would you ask the question and how would u ask it

And if she answers the question is it still valid to keep yours anonymous, ie. “I don’t kiss and tell” etc,

how to handle this dilemma and get this intel on her in the best way possible ?

Statistics show that females with more than 12 prior sexual partners should never be trusted for legal marriage. Further, no female will ever give you a truthful admission of her body count. Whatever number she does admit to, multiply that by at least three and you're likely closer to her actual number of prior partners.

The best way to handle the dilemma the answer to the question would provoke is to accept that as competent with game as you're striving to be, she's going to be vastly better at manipulating men as a consequence of her nature and having more opportunities to practice. As such, it's not unreasonable to assume any female you're pursuing has already been sexually intimate with several guys and that she's more experienced with guys than you are with females. Also, in case you didn't know, hymens can be surgically restored.

While not pleasant information to have, that's just the most likely situation you'll find yourself in. You're just another pony on her carousel ride through life, which is fair as it seems you're just sport f_cking as well. Give yourself sometime to sort out any nascent one-itis feelings about this chick you might have. When you've sorted those feelings out, give her a call, and give her another ride, but before you do, as Sgt Popp says, "Wrap your tool, don't be a fool. Latex. Saves. Pay checks." Just don't stop dating other women because this particular one lets you drain your nuts in her.

@adventurousman79

What is everyone’s opinion on travelling with a plate?

• Met hb 9 in my country and I coincidentally was visiting her country later in the year so we hung out on a few occasions.
• she’s aware of my plans to go to Bali later this year and is asking if she can join me
• My initial plan was to go solo just relax , maybe train a little bit and just talk to random people and just have a good time
• But I don’t mind mind bringing her , cos she’s actually pretty fun to be around

What I’m confused about is , I’ve never travelled with a singular female in the past , nor have I ever moved in with a female. If I bring her along I want opinions on which option I should go for:

• a shorter trip just for 3 nights, hit up beach clubs , just take it easy and relax in one central location, drink and kino. I’m leaning towards something like this. Or
• a 5 night trip, where we also go to other areas and travel for maybe like 2 hours in a car etc , visit monkeys in the jungle not just stay around beach. I’m not sure about this option because I feel like the longer you stay with someone and with the setup of moving around etc - more chance for awkwardness, sexual tension being lost, the girl getting adjusted to you, more Periods of silence etc. Especially for someone I haven’t met on too many occasions. In the rational male ( although not the same circumstances) there’s mention of moving in with someone / having to deal with them consistently killing sexual tension/ competition anxiety. I’ve also travelled with male friends before and have found to get sick of them after 3-4 days.

For context , the reason why I’m interested in this foreign chick is because she’s planning to move to my country.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.