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Urgently read this page

That illustration of men's size 15 high heels made me want to urgently lose my lunch!

My take is that most people have a natural set sexuality from birth like straight, gay or bisexual and it is their true sexuality forever and you can't change it.

I personally think there is some nature and some nurture factoring in. After puberty and first sexual experiences (hopefully in that order!) I suspect it becomes less malleable. "Pray the gay away" type preachers, I suspect, do more harm than good regardless of sincere intentions due to working from faulty premises.

On the practical side, I have a strong Libertarian respect for consenting adults to do as they please in the privacy of their bedrooms. Whatever creams your twinkie!

Wearing your sexuality on your sleeve and making it a part of your identity in routine interaction becomes problematic like any other socially uncalibrated behavior. This goes for straight people too, for example turbo sluts and cartoonish Chad characters.

@EndlessSavage I think what you have is exactly whats talked about here - www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/is-my-fetish-porn-induced/

Urgently read this page if you haven't before, very interesting anecdotes too

I think there is enough statistical information and analysis of it by the people over at YBOP to confidently say that most likely it is porn induced brain change that can get reversed by quitting porn completely, and imo, fapping too.

My take is that most people have a natural set sexuality from birth like straight, gay or bisexual and it is their true sexuality forever and you can't change it. And also as a man, to be dominant.

But through porn addiction many people eventually escalate to chronically consuming content of sexual acts that if you categorise them could fall "outside of their sexuality" and become fetishes.

If you do a quick search on the internet you can find endless posts of self proclaimed straight people with fetishes of gay/transexual/femdom P and i do believe many of them really are straight but fell into this trap and developed these fetishes and as we can see, you can cure yourself, by just completely stopping porn use and fapping.

You need to realize that because its a real addiction, short term quitting is not too hard but eventually the brain will really crave it and thats why you experience the resurfacing, you need to be ready for it and "weather the storm" and then you can go a while without it resurfacing but eventually it can resurface a second and third time etc...and each time it will be weaker as long as you stay clean.

For some people and some addictions, they will probably never completely 100% go away but if it really is something you just don't like doing, i think it can become weak enough to where it is just one more intrusive thought that you sometimes get which you can always push away and live your real life only doing what you actually want.

An alcoholic will forever be an alcoholic but it is also possible for him to quit and remain sober for life. They will inevitably get urges/intrusive thoughts to drink, but if they never waver, they can remain sober for life, and i think something like that applies here too.

The problem with this is, accepting that you might forever at times get urges for sexual acts that you really don't like and are ashamed of, and i guess the way out is to stop even labaling it as "pathetic" because it is probably here to stay.

Personally i have intrusive suicidal thoughts, like whenever i am near a knife or a passing car, train or near a ledge, i very consistently get a thought at the back of my mind "I could just kill myself here" and obviously i never acted on it.

I don't know how common this is but either way, its just a fucked up working of my brain that produces a thought but thats all it is, it doesn't torment me, i've just accepted it and i just live not killing myself lol, you can keep living as a dominant man who gets femdom intrusive thoughts rarely but never acted and will never act on them and be fine with it.

Or you can try it and i bet you, you won't actually like it or you will but will be afterwards disgusted and not want to do it again. Something like that but i am sure its a fetish and you can get over it one way or another, eventually.

this ain't an universal truth, i find myself doing intermittent fasting without even trying or particularly aiming to do it, i can last a good bit without eating without it affecting my productivity.

I don't tend to be very hungry first few to several hours after waking up.

And i even find myself with a clearer mind and stronger drive on an empty stomach (granted i ate well the previous day)

but i think thats the key - eating really well in the window when i do eat the previous day and then my body just feels satisfied for a long time and end up doing intermittent fasting just naturally.

I've built a big eating capacity so i eat A LOT in the window when i do eat and then i just don't eat later in the evening and it stretches all the way to sometimes even past most people's lunch time, sometimes even longer.

Basically yeah, i am a subscriber to intermittent fasting but i am not sure its for everyone, i think its for people who one way or another just naturally have habituated themselves into it, and yeah, i don't do it everyday, i don't plan it, if i feel like having breakfast, ill have it.

@AndrewTatesPancreas How often do you remind yourself about people who objectively have it worse than you due to physical reasons and whatever else you can think of that is more than just a problem of self created mind limitations as yours?

Stop analyzing every little thing and start appreciating the opportunity to not have to fight with major handicaps. You might need something scary to happen to you to wake you the fuck up.

I've seen you do this so many times, you like to go to the definition of things and nerd out about how errrrrr akshually technically this doesn't fit the definition that came from google. Who cares.

Are you trying to eventually find your proper diagnosis or what?

I don't believe in things that take power away from me. - Andrew Tate

Start living and enjoying life, fuck some bitches and then see where you can go from there, Plato.